{"id":117,"date":"2021-02-02T17:37:52","date_gmt":"2021-02-02T16:37:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/qika.org\/?post_type=lexo-post&p=117"},"modified":"2021-03-29T12:54:19","modified_gmt":"2021-03-29T11:54:19","slug":"lorem-ipsum-4","status":"publish","type":"lexo-post","link":"https:\/\/qika.org\/en\/lexo-post\/lorem-ipsum-4\/","title":{"rendered":"Baballar\u00ebt – jo pandemia, po i detyrojn\u00eb n\u00ebnat t\u00eb largohen nga puna"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Le ta sqarojm\u00eb nj\u00eb her\u00eb e mir\u00eb pse n\u00ebnat q\u00eb punojn\u00eb po vuajn\u00eb n\u00eb koh\u00eb pandemie.<\/a><\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u00eb m\u00ebrkur\u00ebn, The Washington Post publikoi nj\u00eb artikull i cili paralajmronte se \u2018kriza e kujdesit p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt gjat\u00eb virusit corona do t\u2019i kthej grat\u00eb nj\u00eb gjenerat\u00eb prapa duke i p\u00ebrs\u00ebritur temat e nj\u00eb artikullit t\u00eb Five Thirty Eight t\u00eb k\u00ebsaj jave me titullin \u2018Pandemia do t\u00eb l\u00eb nj\u00eb gjenerat\u00eb t\u00eb t\u00ebr\u00eb t\u00eb grave pa pun\u00eb\u201d. Ngjash\u00ebm, Wall Street Journal shkruan q\u00eb: \u2018Karrierat e grave do t\u00eb marrin nj\u00eb goditje me pasoja afatgjate nga pandemia\u201d, CNN parasheh q\u00eb \u2018Pandemia rrezikon t\u00eb fshij\u00eb progresin e grave\u2019.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u00eb g\u00ebzon fakti q\u00eb shoh ballina t\u00eb cilat preokupohen p\u00ebr t\u00eb ruajtur avancimin e grave n\u00eb vendin e pun\u00ebs, por k\u00ebtu po mungon di\u00e7ka: baballar\u00ebt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cbsht\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb q\u00eb Covid-19 ka nj\u00eb ndikim t\u00eb paparashikuar tek n\u00ebnat amerikane, por kjo nuk po ndodh vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb virusit \u2013 kjo po ndodh sepse shteti duket se ka hequr dor\u00eb nga ideja q\u00eb baballar\u00ebt duhet t\u00eb ken\u00eb nj\u00eb pjes\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsive t\u00eb kujdesit ndaj f\u00ebmij\u00ebve, edhe at\u00ebher\u00eb kur ky kujdes mund ta shp\u00ebtoj\u00eb karrier\u00ebn e grave t\u00eb tyre.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tani p\u00ebr tani, artikull pas artikulli po parashikohet nj\u00eb rikthim i dob\u00ebt i grave n\u00eb vend t\u00eb pun\u00ebs: m\u00eb shum\u00eb gra jan\u00eb larguar nga puna, t\u00eb ardhurat financiare t\u00eb grave pritet t\u00eb marrin goditje m\u00eb t\u00eb madhe, dhe vendet e pun\u00ebs nuk ofrojn\u00eb kushte t\u00eb duhura p\u00ebr prind\u00ebr t\u00eb ri. T\u00eb gjitha k\u00ebto mund t\u00eb kontribuojn\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb depresion t\u00eb pashmangsh\u00ebm feminist. N\u00eb prill, p\u00ebrqindja e grave t\u00eb pun\u00ebsuara u tkurr n\u00eb 54.7%, norm\u00eb kjo e ngjashme me at\u00eb t\u00eb viteve 1980-ta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u00eb fakt, shumica e k\u00ebsaj mund t\u00eb parandalohet. Ky rrezik p\u00ebr pun\u00ebsimin e grave nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb i pandalsh\u00ebm. Thjesht duhet q\u00eb burrat t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn sakrific\u00eb q\u00eb grat\u00eb kan\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb q\u00eb nga fillimi i pandemis\u00eb (madje edhe shum\u00eb vite para pandemis\u00eb).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb aq e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb. Duhet t\u00eb mos presim q\u00eb vet\u00ebm n\u00ebna t\u00eb jet\u00eb prindi q\u00eb ndihmon f\u00ebmij\u00ebn gjat\u00eb m\u00ebsimit n\u00eb distanc\u00eb, apo ajo q\u00eb duhet t\u00eb p\u00ebrgatis drek\u00ebn. Boll m\u00eb me baballar\u00ebt q\u00eb i mbyllin dyert e zyrave. Ose, nj\u00eb rast q\u00eb mbaj mend, kur nj\u00eb baba m\u00ebsoi f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tij t\u00eb th\u00ebrrasin emrin e gruas p\u00ebr t\u2019ja marr\u00eb v\u00ebmendjen. Koha q\u00eb grat\u00eb dhe burrat shpenzojn\u00eb duke punuar duhet t\u00eb vler\u00ebsohet nj\u00ebjt\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Duhet poashtu t\u00eb pranojm\u00eb se m\u00ebnyra se si grat\u00eb marrin rolin e prindit q\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb duhet t\u00eb kujdeset ndaj f\u00ebmij\u00ebve nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb i qart\u00eb dhe \u00ebsht\u00eb pak tinzar. Ndoshta burri i thot\u00eb gruas se ajo thjesht \u00ebsht\u00eb \u2018m\u00eb e mir\u00eb\u2019 kur vjen puna q\u00eb t\u00eb merret me shqet\u00ebsimet e vogla t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve, ose q\u00eb vajza 10 vje\u00e7are nuk po e d\u00ebgjon nj\u00eblloj si n\u00ebn\u00ebn. Babai nuk e mban n\u00eb mend emrin e pediatrit t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve \u2013 sepse ai nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb prindi i cili del nga puna p\u00ebr t\u00eb shkuar n\u00eb kontroll kur f\u00ebmij\u00ebt s\u00ebmuren, k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb kjo pun\u00eb i mbetet gruas s\u00eb tij. Babai nuk ka ide se sa \u00ebsht\u00eb numri i k\u00ebpuc\u00ebve t\u00eb vajz\u00ebs s\u00eb tij, madje as nuk e di se a ka nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr k\u00ebpuc\u00eb t\u00eb reja. \u00cbsht\u00eb ky miti \u201cmyth of the male bumbler\u201d absurd n\u00eb t\u00eb cilin burrat besojn\u00eb q\u00eb jan\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb udh\u00ebhequr bot\u00ebn, por nuk munden t\u00eb kuptojn\u00eb se si funksionon rrobalar\u00ebsja apo se si duhet ta v\u00ebn\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebn n\u00eb gjum\u00eb. Baballar\u00ebt mund t\u00eb kryejn\u00eb \u00e7far\u00ebdo pune; shumica e tyre thjesht zgjedhin mos ta b\u00ebjn\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Karrierat e grave nuk mund t\u00eb ruhen vet\u00ebm nga disa burra q\u00eb vendosin t\u00eb kryejn\u00eb pun\u00ebt e sht\u00ebpis\u00eb. Nj\u00eb faktor\u00eb q\u00eb ndikon shum\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00ebnyra sesi ne diskutojm\u00eb mbi kujdesin ndaj f\u00ebmij\u00ebve si problem vet\u00ebm i grave, gj\u00eb q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e pap\u00ebrgjegjshme.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

P\u00ebr reporter\u00ebt: N\u00eb vend se t\u00eb b\u00ebni nj\u00eb artikull sesi n\u00ebnat po mundohen t\u00eb balancojn\u00eb pun\u00ebn e tyre dhe kujdesin ndaj f\u00ebmij\u00ebve, \u00e7ka n\u00ebse shkruani nj\u00eb artikull (apo disa artikuj) se si baballar\u00ebt po angazhohen shum\u00eb pak? Le ta themi tro\u00e7: Refuzimi i burrave p\u00ebr t\u00eb ndar\u00eb n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb barabart\u00eb pun\u00ebt e sht\u00ebpis\u00eb gjat\u00eb pandemis\u00eb \u2013 vendim ky i cili do kthej t\u00eb drejtat e grave prapa me dekada \u2013 \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb skandal komb\u00ebtar. Pse nuk po e trajtojm\u00eb si t\u00eb till\u00eb?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nuk duhet t\u00eb kemi frik\u00eb t\u2019i turp\u00ebrojm\u00eb, sidomos kur sjelljet e tyre jan\u00eb kaq t\u00eb turpshme. Pandemia nuk po i largon grat\u00eb nga vendet e pun\u00ebs \u2013 ajo thjesht po ilustron pabarazit\u00eb e kahmotshme. Virusit corona nuk i intereson se kush i lan\u00eb en\u00ebt apo kush ndihmon f\u00ebmij\u00ebt t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb detyrat e sht\u00ebpis\u00eb. K\u00ebshtu q\u00eb kur flasim p\u00ebr k\u00ebto probleme, duhet t\u00eb jemi t\u00eb sakt\u00eb: Covid-19 e ka v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsuar balancin pun\u00eb\/sht\u00ebpi p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjith\u00eb prind\u00ebrit; por baballar\u00ebt po e b\u00ebjn\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb edhe m\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb p\u00ebr n\u00ebnat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Jessica Valenti<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

E p\u00ebrktheu: Njomza Tmava<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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