T\u00eb diel\u00ebn, kongresistja nga Nju Jorku, Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez, publikoi nj\u00eb video n\u00eb Instagram. Ajo ishte ulur n\u00eb nj\u00eb divan ngjyr\u00eb bezh\u00eb, e veshur me xhinse dhe nj\u00eb triko, nd\u00ebrsa pran\u00eb saj \u00ebsht\u00eb bulldogu i saj francez, Deco. Atmosfera \u00ebsht\u00eb intime, me at\u00eb ndjesin\u00eb e leht\u00eb t\u00eb tensionuar q\u00eb t\u00eb kujton videot e \u201cunboxing\u201d-ut. N\u00eb tavolin\u00ebn e kafes\u00eb p\u00ebrball\u00eb saj jan\u00eb vendosur nj\u00eb s\u00ebr\u00eb shishe t\u00eb vogla dhe tampon\u00ebsh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cMir\u00eb at\u00ebher\u00eb,\u201d thot\u00eb ajo. \u201cDita e par\u00eb e ngrirjes s\u00eb vez\u00ebve t\u00eb mia. Po futem n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb proces.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ajo i mbledh flok\u00ebt pas dhe merr frym\u00eb thell\u00eb. M\u00eb pas ngre bluz\u00ebn dhe i injekton vetes nj\u00eb injeksion n\u00eb bark.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cMos u b\u00ebni t\u00eb \u00e7uditsh\u00ebm p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb,\u201d thot\u00eb ajo. \u201cEdhe pse e di q\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb do t\u00eb b\u00ebheni.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Paralajm\u00ebrim: njer\u00ebzit u treguan t\u00eb \u00e7uditsh\u00ebm. Vendimi i Ocasio-Cortez p\u00ebr t\u00eb ndar\u00eb publikisht p\u00ebrvoj\u00ebn e ngrirjes s\u00eb vez\u00ebve ka nxitur nj\u00eb debat t\u00eb ashp\u00ebr dhe reagime t\u00eb hutuar e t\u00eb shqet\u00ebsuara nga konservator\u00ebt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Duke postuar n\u00eb platform\u00ebn X, komentatori i krahut t\u00eb djatht\u00eb Matt Walsh e quajti vendimin e Ocasio-Cortez \u201ckrejt\u00ebsisht t\u00eb prapambetur dhe qesharak\u201d. \u201cAjo do t\u00eb mbush\u00eb 37 vje\u00e7 pas disa muajsh. N\u00ebse do t\u00eb mbetej shtatz\u00ebn\u00eb tani, teknikisht do t\u00eb konsiderohej nj\u00eb shtatz\u00ebni geriatrike. N\u00eb vend t\u00eb k\u00ebsaj, ajo po ngrin vez\u00ebt,\u201d shkroi ai. \u201cKjo d\u00ebshir\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb pasur f\u00ebmij\u00eb n\u00eb mosh\u00eb t\u00eb madhe \u00ebsht\u00eb krejt\u00ebsisht e pakuptueshme p\u00ebr mua.\u201d M\u00eb tej, ai tha \u201cUn\u00eb do t\u00eb kem f\u00ebmij\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebzetat e tyre deri n\u00eb koh\u00ebn kur t\u00eb mbush 50 vje\u00e7. AOC, me sa duket, d\u00ebshiron t\u00eb ket\u00eb nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb t\u00eb vog\u00ebl n\u00eb at\u00eb mosh\u00eb.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb, podkasterja konservatore Katie Miller, e martuar me Stephen Miller, z\u00ebvend\u00ebs-shefin e kabinetit t\u00eb Presidentit Donald Trump p\u00ebr politik\u00eb, dhe shkroi n\u00eb X \u201cN\u00eb mbar\u00eb bot\u00ebn kemi nivele historikisht t\u00eb ul\u00ebta t\u00eb lindshm\u00ebris\u00eb. N\u00ebse nj\u00eb grua d\u00ebshiron t\u00eb ruaj\u00eb t\u00eb drejt\u00ebn e saj p\u00ebr t\u00eb pasur f\u00ebmij\u00eb, q\u00eb do t\u00eb thot\u00eb t\u00eb ket\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb n\u00eb vend sesa t\u00eb mos ket\u00eb fare, duhet ta festojm\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb.\u201d Por lavd\u00ebrimi i Miller kishte edhe nj\u00eb thumb. \u201cM\u00eb shum\u00eb gra duhet t\u00eb martohen dhe t\u00eb ken\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb reja,\u201d shkroi ajo, \u201cpor shum\u00eb gra besojn\u00eb te g\u00ebnjeshtra feministe dhe i kalojn\u00eb vitet e tyre riprodhuese duke u ngjitur n\u00eb shkall\u00ebt e karrier\u00ebs.\u201d Ajo vazhdoi me nj\u00eb zgjidhje t\u00eb \u00e7uditshme p\u00ebr problemin e r\u00ebnies s\u00eb lindshm\u00ebris\u00eb: \u201cKur shoq\u00ebria t\u00eb ket\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb foshnja dhe m\u00eb shum\u00eb gra e burra t\u00eb rinj ekspozohen ndaj m\u00eb shum\u00eb foshnjave, at\u00ebher\u00eb do t\u00eb ket\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb foshnja n\u00eb bot\u00eb.\u201d Problemi u zgjidh!<\/p>\n\n\n\n
N\u00eb dit\u00ebt pasi Ocasio-Cortez filloi t\u00eb dokumentonte procesin e ngrirjes s\u00eb vez\u00ebve, nis\u00ebn t\u00eb qarkullonin thashetheme p\u00ebr statusin e marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnies s\u00eb saj. A ishte ende e fejuar me t\u00eb dashurin e saj q\u00eb nga koha e universitetit, zhvilluesin e faqeve t\u00eb internetit me flok\u00eb t\u00eb kuqe, Riley Roberts? \u00c7far\u00eb mendonte ai p\u00ebr vendimin e saj? Komentuesit vun\u00eb re se ajo koh\u00ebt e fundit nuk kishte mbajtur unaz\u00ebn e fejes\u00ebs dhe se Roberts nuk ishte fotografuar pran\u00eb saj. T\u00eb m\u00ebrkur\u00ebn, The New York Times raportoi se lidhja e tyre kishte \u201cp\u00ebrfunduar n\u00eb heshtje prej disa koh\u00ebsh\u201d. (Ocasio-Cortez nuk e ka konfirmuar ndarjen.) Kjo nxiti edhe m\u00eb shum\u00eb spekulime rreth mund\u00ebsive t\u00eb saj si nj\u00eb grua e re dhe beqare, n\u00eb rast t\u00eb nj\u00eb kandidimi t\u00eb ardhsh\u00ebm p\u00ebr Presidente, nj\u00eb mund\u00ebsi q\u00eb ajo nuk e ka p\u00ebrjashtuar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Influencueri i l\u00ebvizjes \u201clooksmaxxing\u201d (nj\u00eb term q\u00eb i referohet p\u00ebrpjekjeve p\u00ebr t\u00eb p\u00ebrmir\u00ebsuar sa m\u00eb shum\u00eb pamjen fizike), Clavicular, shfryt\u00ebzoi rastin p\u00ebr t\u00eb deklaruar gjat\u00eb nj\u00eb transmetimi t\u00eb drejtp\u00ebrdrejt\u00eb: \u201cUn\u00eb do t\u00eb martohem me t\u00eb, hajde.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
T\u00eb shtun\u00ebn e kaluar, Ocasio-Cortez kishte publikuar disa video n\u00eb t\u00eb cilat shpjegonte, n\u00eb nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb \u00e7lir\u00ebt, pse kishte vendosur t\u2019i ngrinte vez\u00ebt dhe pse d\u00ebshironte ta b\u00ebnte k\u00ebt\u00eb publikisht. Shumica e arsyeve t\u00eb saj do t\u00eb jen\u00eb t\u00eb njohura p\u00ebr grat\u00eb e brezit mij\u00ebvje\u00e7ar t\u00eb nj\u00eb grupi t\u00eb caktuar demografik. (Disa nga rrethanat, si fakti q\u00eb ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb gruaja m\u00eb e re e zgjedhur ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb n\u00eb Kongres dhe se \u00ebsht\u00eb dashur t\u00eb \u201crritet n\u00ebn syt\u00eb e publikut\u201d, sigurisht q\u00eb jo.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cZakonisht, jet\u00ebn time private e mbaj mjaft private, por kam marr\u00eb vendimin t\u00eb filloj t\u2019i ngrij vez\u00ebt,\u201d thot\u00eb ajo n\u00eb nj\u00ebr\u00ebn prej videove, duke iu drejtuar kamer\u00ebs. \u201cDhe dua ta ndaj k\u00ebt\u00eb me ju sepse e kam menduar p\u00ebr nj\u00eb koh\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb gjat\u00eb dhe kam kursyer p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb koh\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb gjat\u00eb. Thjesht nuk ka shum\u00eb informacion n\u00eb dispozicion, t\u00eb pakt\u00ebn k\u00ebshtu m\u00eb duket mua dhe ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb mund t\u00eb duket v\u00ebrtet frik\u00ebsuese.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ajo vazhdon \u201cN\u00eb p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsi, si gra, neve nuk na m\u00ebsojne shum\u00eb p\u00ebr trupat tan\u00eb. Nuk p\u00ebrgatitemi p\u00ebr jet\u00ebn ton\u00eb,\u201d q\u00eb nga puberteti e deri te menopauza. Pavar\u00ebsisht n\u00ebse d\u00ebshiron apo jo t\u00eb kesh f\u00ebmij\u00eb, thot\u00eb ajo, \u201cmendoj se duhet t\u00eb shohim m\u00eb shum\u00eb shembuj t\u00eb grave q\u00eb jetojn\u00eb jet\u00eb t\u00eb plota, n\u00eb \u00e7do rrethan\u00eb dhe pavar\u00ebsisht zgjedhjes q\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb.\u201d Ajo e paraqet vendimin e saj si nj\u00eb akt fuqizues \u201cKjo \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb zgjedhje q\u00eb po e b\u00ebj p\u00ebr t\u00eb ndier se kam m\u00eb shum\u00eb kontroll mbi jet\u00ebn time.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kongresistja nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e vetmja q\u00eb mendon k\u00ebshtu. Numri i grave n\u00eb SHBA q\u00eb i ngrijn\u00eb vez\u00ebt p\u00ebr arsye jo mjek\u00ebsore \u00ebsht\u00eb rritur ndjesh\u00ebm gjat\u00eb dekad\u00ebs s\u00eb fundit. N\u00eb vitin 2014, rreth 4 mij\u00eb amerikane zgjodh\u00ebn t\u2019i ngrinin vez\u00ebt, sipas Shoqat\u00ebs p\u00ebr Teknologjin\u00eb e Riprodhimit t\u00eb Asistuar. Deri n\u00eb vitin 2024, ky num\u00ebr ishte rritur n\u00eb afro 40 mij\u00eb. Ka disa faktor\u00eb q\u00eb kan\u00eb ndikuar n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rritje. N\u00eb vitin 2012, Shoqata Amerikane p\u00ebr Mjek\u00ebsin\u00eb Riprodhuese hoqi termin \u201ceksperimentale\u201d nga p\u00ebrkufizimi i ngrirjes s\u00eb vez\u00ebve. M\u00eb par\u00eb, ngrirja e vez\u00ebve p\u00ebrdorej kryesisht p\u00ebr ruajtjen e fertilitetit n\u00eb raste urgjencash mjek\u00ebsore, si trajtimet p\u00ebr kancerin. Edhe kompanit\u00eb kan\u00eb luajtur nj\u00eb rol, p\u00ebr shembull Apple dhe Facebook prej koh\u00ebsh mbulojn\u00eb ngrirjen dhe ruajtjen e vez\u00ebve p\u00ebr punonj\u00ebset e tyre, si procedur\u00eb t\u00eb zgjedhur prej tyre.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Por suksesi nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb i garantuar. Mosha ende ka r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi. Grat\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebzetat kan\u00eb vez\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb sh\u00ebndetshme dhe n\u00eb sasi m\u00eb t\u00eb madhe sesa grat\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb tridhjetat. Sa m\u00eb shum\u00eb vez\u00eb t\u00eb ket\u00eb, aq m\u00eb e madhe \u00ebsht\u00eb mund\u00ebsia p\u00ebr t\u00eb krijuar nj\u00eb embrion t\u00eb q\u00ebndruesh\u00ebm. Kjo ka b\u00ebr\u00eb q\u00eb disa prind\u00ebr n\u00eb Silicon Valley t\u00eb paguajn\u00eb p\u00ebr ngrirjen e vez\u00ebve t\u00eb vajzave t\u00eb tyre si dhurat\u00eb p\u00ebr diplomim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nj\u00eb nga aft\u00ebsit\u00eb e jasht\u00ebzakonshme t\u00eb Ocasio-Cortez \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00ebnyra se si arrin t\u00eb duket si nj\u00eb person krejt i zakonsh\u00ebm, edhe kur ajo q\u00eb po b\u00ebn \u00ebsht\u00eb duksh\u00ebm e jasht\u00ebzakonshme. N\u00eb nj\u00eb video, ajo u tregon ndjek\u00ebsve se do t\u00eb marr\u00eb pjes\u00eb n\u00eb emisionin televiziv t\u00eb ABC-s\u00eb, \u201cThis Morning\u201d, \u201csi pjes\u00eb e pun\u00ebs sime\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cP\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb orarit, do t\u00eb m\u00eb duhet t\u2019i b\u00ebj injeksionet n\u00eb dhom\u00ebn e gjelb\u00ebr para intervist\u00ebs. Dhe dua q\u00eb ju ta shihni k\u00ebt\u00eb, sepse grat\u00eb mund t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb gjith\u00e7ka,\u201d thot\u00eb ajo. \u201cDhe mendoj se \u00ebsht\u00eb fantastike q\u00eb do t\u00eb jem, e dini, duke i b\u00ebr\u00eb vetes injeksione n\u00eb dhom\u00ebn e gjelb\u00ebr, duke u rregulluar, pastaj do t\u00eb dal, do t\u00eb flas p\u00ebr ngjarjet nd\u00ebrkomb\u00ebtare, politikat e brendshme, zgjedhjet, do t\u00eb dal prej aty dhe do t\u00eb vazhdoj jet\u00ebn time, do t\u00eb b\u00ebj at\u00eb q\u00eb b\u00ebj.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Videot pasuese, n\u00eb t\u00eb cilat ajo shfaqet me nj\u00eb xhaket\u00eb t\u00eb err\u00ebt duke p\u00ebrgatitur ila\u00e7et n\u00eb dhom\u00ebn e gjelb\u00ebr, krijojn\u00eb imazhe t\u00eb fuqishme. Ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb aty, duke u rregulluar p\u00ebr flok\u00ebt dhe grimin, duke i injektuar vetes hormone dhe m\u00eb pas duke folur qart\u00eb n\u00eb televizionin drejtp\u00ebrdrejt. E gjith\u00eb kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb padyshim mbres\u00ebl\u00ebn\u00ebse, megjithat\u00eb fjala \u201cfantastike\u201d m\u00eb mbeti n\u00eb mendje si nj\u00eb not\u00eb q\u00eb nuk ting\u00ebllonte si\u00e7 duhej.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ngrirja e vez\u00ebve shpesh paraqitet si nj\u00eb zgjedhje fuqizuese, por kostot q\u00eb lidhen me t\u00eb nuk jan\u00eb t\u00eb pap\u00ebrfillshme. Ekziston barra financiare, shumica e politikave t\u00eb sigurimit, p\u00ebrfshir\u00eb at\u00eb t\u00eb Ocasio-Cortez, nuk e mbulojn\u00eb ngrirjen ose ruajtjen e vez\u00ebve, si dhe barra fizike mbi trupin e gruas. \u00cbsht\u00eb interesante se nj\u00eb studim i fundit nga UCLA zbuloi se vet\u00ebm rreth 6% e grave q\u00eb i ngrijn\u00eb vez\u00ebt kthehen m\u00eb von\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019i p\u00ebrdorur ato.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Teksa shikoja kongresisten, vazhdimisht d\u00ebshiroja t\u00eb ekzistonte nj\u00eb rrug\u00eb alternative: nj\u00eb rrug\u00eb ku mund\u00ebsit\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb grua ambicioze q\u00eb punon t\u00eb mos kufizoheshin vet\u00ebm te zgjedhja mes t\u00eb pasurit f\u00ebmij\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb reja, si\u00e7 do t\u00eb d\u00ebshironin konservator\u00ebt, ose shtyrjes s\u00eb m\u00ebm\u00ebsis\u00eb p\u00ebrmes procedurave t\u00eb kushtueshme dhe t\u00eb pak\u00ebndshme.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00cbsht\u00eb nj\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb e pak\u00ebndshme q\u00eb vitet kur shum\u00eb gra ndihen t\u00eb gatshme p\u00ebr t\u00eb krijuar familje, mesi deri n\u00eb fundin e t\u00eb tridhjetave, jan\u00eb nj\u00ebkoh\u00ebsisht edhe vitet kulmore p\u00ebr avancimin n\u00eb karrier\u00eb. P\u00ebr Ocasio-Cortez, pasojat jan\u00eb edhe m\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebdha. Jo shum\u00eb prej nesh po mendojn\u00eb t\u00eb kandidojn\u00eb p\u00ebr Presidente. Por \u00e7\u00ebshtjet jan\u00eb t\u00eb ngjashme.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Krahas ngritjeve n\u00eb detyr\u00eb, shum\u00eb gra t\u00eb reja po b\u00ebjn\u00eb n\u00eb heshtje nj\u00eb lloj pazari me koh\u00ebn dhe trupin e tyre. Sa gjat\u00eb mund t\u00eb pres? \u00c7far\u00eb jam e gatshme t\u00eb sakrifikoj?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
N\u00eb vend q\u00eb t\u00eb nd\u00ebrtojm\u00eb nj\u00eb shoq\u00ebri q\u00eb i merr parasysh k\u00ebto shqet\u00ebsime, kemi nd\u00ebrtuar nj\u00eb shoq\u00ebri q\u00eb i trajton ato si \u00e7\u00ebshtje t\u00eb par\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme, si \u00e7\u00ebshtje private q\u00eb grat\u00eb duhet t\u2019i p\u00ebrballojn\u00eb n\u00eb heshtje, sikur t\u00eb ishin nj\u00eb pun\u00eb e dyt\u00eb sekrete.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nj\u00eb pjes\u00eb e zgjuarsis\u00eb s\u00eb Ocasio-Cortez q\u00ebndron n\u00eb faktin se ajo i b\u00ebn t\u00eb dukshme k\u00ebto llogaritje t\u00eb v\u00ebshtira. Ndoshta duhet t\u00eb shkoj\u00eb edhe m\u00eb tej. N\u00eb nj\u00ebr\u00ebn prej videove t\u00eb saj, ajo duket se e prek k\u00ebt\u00eb pabarazi, sikur po teston terrenin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cThjesht nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb di\u00e7ka me t\u00eb cil\u00ebn p\u00ebrballen burrat,\u201d thot\u00eb ajo. \u201cBurrat kandidojn\u00eb p\u00ebr poste publike ose, p\u00ebr t\u00eb qen\u00eb t\u00eb sinqert\u00eb, aplikojn\u00eb p\u00ebr pun\u00eb, dhe njer\u00ebzit nuk mendojn\u00eb n\u00eb prapasken\u00eb: \u2018Mir\u00eb, ky burr\u00eb po kandidon p\u00ebr nj\u00eb post, sa vje\u00e7 \u00ebsht\u00eb? A do t\u00eb d\u00ebshiroj\u00eb t\u00eb krijoj\u00eb familje? N\u00ebse po, apo n\u00ebse jo, a ka b\u00ebr\u00eb nj\u00eb zgjedhje n\u00eb lidhje me k\u00ebt\u00eb?\u2019\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ajo vazhdon: \u201cDhe nuk jam k\u00ebtu p\u00ebr t\u00eb folur n\u00ebse kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb e drejt\u00eb apo e padrejt\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb kontekst. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb thjesht bota n\u00eb t\u00eb cil\u00ebn jetojm\u00eb sot.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n