N\u00eb Afrik\u00ebn Per\u00ebndimore, shum\u00eb vajza do t\u00eb mungojn\u00eb kur t\u00eb nis\u00eb viti i ri shkollor, sepse gjat\u00eb pushimeve jan\u00eb martuar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Martesa e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb nj\u00ebkoh\u00ebsisht shkak dhe pasoj\u00eb e munges\u00ebs s\u00eb qasjes s\u00eb vajzave n\u00eb arsim. Vajzat mund t\u00eb nd\u00ebrpresin shkollimin sepse detyrohen t\u00eb martohen, ose mund t\u00eb martohen sepse nuk u jepet mund\u00ebsia t\u00eb vazhdojn\u00eb shkollimin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sipas UNICEF-it, Afrika Per\u00ebndimore dhe Qendrore ka p\u00ebrqindjen m\u00eb t\u00eb lart\u00eb t\u00eb martesave t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve n\u00eb bot\u00eb. N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rajon, kat\u00ebr n\u00eb dhjet\u00eb vajza martohen para mosh\u00ebs 18-vje\u00e7are.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Abs\u00e9tou* nga Bregu i Fildisht\u00eb, Aubierge nga Benini dhe Bibata nga Burkina Faso \u00ebnd\u00ebrronin t\u00eb vazhdonin shkollimin. P\u00ebrmes rezistenc\u00ebs, aktivizmit dhe k\u00ebmb\u00ebnguljes, ato tregojn\u00eb historit\u00eb e tyre.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cQ\u00eb nga momenti kur refuzova t\u00eb martohesha, m\u00eb rrihnin \u00e7do dit\u00eb\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Abs\u00e9tou*, nga Bregu i Fildisht\u00eb, e kund\u00ebrshtoi martes\u00ebn q\u00eb babai i saj po p\u00ebrpiqej t\u2019ia impononte kur ajo ishte ende adoleshente. Sot, n\u00eb mosh\u00ebn 29-vje\u00e7are, ajo d\u00ebshiron t\u00eb martohet me nj\u00eb burr\u00eb q\u00eb e zgjedh vet\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cKur isha 14 vje\u00e7, babai im donte t\u00eb m\u00eb martonte me nj\u00eb kush\u00ebri q\u00eb ishte n\u00eb t\u00eb tridhjetat. Ai kishte filluar t\u00eb organizonte martes\u00ebn pas shpin\u00ebs sime; kuptova se tashm\u00eb kishte bler\u00eb p\u00eblhur\u00ebn p\u00ebr rrobat e dasm\u00ebs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Refuzova t\u00eb martohesha dhe i thash\u00eb babait se doja t\u00eb vazhdoja shkollimin. I dija t\u00eb drejtat e mia, sepse n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb na kishin m\u00ebsuar p\u00ebr to. N\u00eb mosh\u00ebn 14-vje\u00e7are, tashm\u00eb kisha plane t\u00eb b\u00ebhesha mami.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Q\u00eb nga momenti kur refuzova t\u00eb martohesha, babai d\u00ebrgonte njer\u00ebz t\u00eb m\u00eb prisnin rrug\u00ebs p\u00ebr n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb, m\u00eb rrihnin dhe m\u00eb kthenin me forc\u00eb n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi. M\u00eb rrihnin \u00e7do dit\u00eb dhe ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb nuk m\u00eb jepnin asgj\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb ngr\u00ebn\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n N\u00eb fillim t\u00eb vitit t\u00eb ardhsh\u00ebm shkollor, babai nuk i pagoi shpenzimet e shkollimit. N\u00ebna ime tha se nuk kishte mund\u00ebsi t\u00eb m\u00eb ndihmonte; ishte e d\u00ebshp\u00ebruar. N\u00eb familjen ton\u00eb, n\u00ebna nuk kishte z\u00eb. Po vuaja dhe qaja \u00e7do dit\u00eb.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n Abs\u00e9tou shkoi te m\u00ebsuesi i saj i anglishtes p\u00ebr t\u2019ia shpjeguar situat\u00ebn. Ai e lidhi me Amnesty International, ku ajo k\u00ebrkoi ndihm\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Kur p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebsuesit e Amnesty-t shkuan t\u00eb flisnin me baban\u00eb e saj, ai refuzoi t\u2019i takonte. N\u00eb fund, ai e p\u00ebrzuri nga sht\u00ebpia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Me mb\u00ebshtetjen e Amnesty International dhe Ministris\u00eb s\u00eb Arsimit, Abs\u00e9tou mundi t\u00eb vazhdonte shkoll\u00ebn e mesme. Pas provimit p\u00ebrfundimtar, ajo shkoi t\u00eb jetonte me nj\u00eb mentore dhe u trajnu\u0430 p\u00ebr t\u2019u b\u00ebr\u00eb mami.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cSot, babai im nuk mund t\u00eb m\u00eb pengoj\u00eb m\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Edhe sot marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnia ime me babain nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e mir\u00eb. Kur e vizitoj, p\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetemi, por nuk flasim m\u00eb shum\u00eb se kaq. Un\u00eb do ta zgjedh vet\u00eb burrin me t\u00eb cilin do t\u00eb martohem dhe do ta organizoj vet\u00eb dasm\u00ebn time. K\u00ebt\u00eb dua dhe babai im nuk mund t\u00eb m\u00eb pengoj\u00eb m\u00eb.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n Motra e saj e vog\u00ebl gjithashtu refuzoi martes\u00ebn q\u00eb babai donte t\u2019ia impononte dhe, ashtu si Abs\u00e9tou, u p\u00ebrzu nga sht\u00ebpia. Ajo shkoi t\u00eb jetonte me motr\u00ebn e saj, e cila drejtonte nj\u00eb biznes t\u00eb vog\u00ebl p\u00ebr t\u2019i paguar shpenzimet e shkollimit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Abs\u00e9tou tashm\u00eb punon prej tre vitesh si mami e regjistruar nga shteti. N\u00eb pun\u00ebn e saj takon gra q\u00eb kan\u00eb p\u00ebrjetuar dhun\u00eb, p\u00ebrfshir\u00eb gra q\u00eb jan\u00eb detyruar t\u00eb martohen ose q\u00eb i jan\u00eb n\u00ebnshtruar gjymtimit gjenital fem\u00ebror.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ajo thot\u00eb se i d\u00ebgjon dhe i k\u00ebshillon k\u00ebto gra dhe se, ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb, kur mendon p\u00ebr p\u00ebrvojat e tyre dhe p\u00ebr at\u00eb q\u00eb ka kaluar vet\u00eb, qan.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cMartesa e hershme nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb gj\u00eb e mir\u00eb. Duhet t\u2019i nd\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsojm\u00eb prind\u00ebrit dhe t\u2019i pyesim vajzat e reja se \u00e7far\u00eb duan p\u00ebr t\u00eb ardhmen e tyre. I inkurajoj t\u00eb luftojn\u00eb p\u00ebr veten.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n *Emri \u00ebsht\u00eb ndryshuar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cVendosa t\u00eb b\u00ebj fushat\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb drejt\u00ebn p\u00ebr arsimim\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Aubierge, 22 vje\u00e7, studion biznes n\u00eb Parakou, n\u00eb veri t\u00eb Beninit. Ajo ka b\u00ebr\u00eb fushat\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb drejt\u00ebn p\u00ebr arsimim q\u00eb nga mosha 15-vje\u00e7are. N\u00eb vitin 2024, Amnesty International Benin e em\u00ebroi \u201cYll t\u00eb t\u00eb Drejtave t\u00eb Njeriut\u201d. Ajo organizon sesione nd\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsimi n\u00eb komunitetin e saj.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cKur isha 14 vje\u00e7, prind\u00ebrit e mi po flisnin p\u00ebr t\u00eb m\u00eb martuar. Nuk m\u00eb than\u00eb drejtp\u00ebrdrejt se nuk do t\u00eb paguanin m\u00eb p\u00ebr shkollimin tim, por e kuptova se nuk mund t\u00eb prisja m\u00eb asgj\u00eb prej tyre dhe se duhej t\u00eb punoja p\u00ebr t\u00eb vazhduar shkoll\u00ebn.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Fillova t\u00eb b\u00ebja pun\u00eb t\u00eb vogla, si shitja e sapunit t\u00eb l\u00ebngsh\u00ebm dhe p\u00eblhurave, p\u00ebr t\u00eb paguar mjetet shkollore.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ndalova s\u00eb k\u00ebrkuari \u00e7do gj\u00eb nga prind\u00ebrit dhe ata e pan\u00eb se isha e vendosur, k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb ndaluan s\u00eb foluri p\u00ebr martes\u00ebn time. Edhe motrat e mia luftuan p\u00ebr t\u00eb pasur mund\u00ebsi t\u00eb studionin.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n Aubierge tregon se n\u00eb komunitetin e saj shpesh ka d\u00ebgjuar prind\u00ebr t\u2019u thon\u00eb vajzave 12-, 13- ose 14-vje\u00e7are se nuk mund t\u00eb vazhdonin m\u00eb shkollimin dhe se duhej t\u00eb martoheshin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Kjo u kishte ndodhur edhe shum\u00eb prej shoqeve t\u00eb saj t\u00eb klas\u00ebs. Pas martes\u00ebs, shum\u00eb prej tyre ishin abuzuar nga bashk\u00ebshort\u00ebt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cVajzat ishin shum\u00eb t\u00eb reja kur u martuan; nuk dinin asgj\u00eb p\u00ebr martes\u00ebn. Disa nuk mund\u00ebn t\u00eb q\u00ebndronin me bashk\u00ebshort\u00ebt e tyre. Sot punojn\u00eb n\u00eb bujq\u00ebsi, drejtojn\u00eb biznese t\u00eb vogla ose lypin p\u00ebr t\u00eb siguruar jetes\u00ebn.<\/p>\n\n\n\n P\u00ebrball\u00eb k\u00ebsaj, i thash\u00eb vetes se nuk mund t\u00eb rrija duarkryq dhe t\u00eb mos b\u00ebja asgj\u00eb. Vendosa t\u00eb b\u00ebj fushat\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb drejt\u00ebn p\u00ebr arsimim. Nuk doja ta p\u00ebrjetoja edhe vet\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb dhe doja t\u2019i jepja fund k\u00ebsaj.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ajo thot\u00eb se nd\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsimi i prind\u00ebrve p\u00ebr pasojat e d\u00ebmshme t\u00eb martesave t\u00eb hershme nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb i leht\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cKam luftuar shum\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb arritur k\u00ebtu ku jam. \u00cbsht\u00eb v\u00ebrtet e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb, por nuk do t\u00eb ndalem. Flas n\u00eb em\u00ebr t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve t\u00eb cenuesh\u00ebm.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cNuk do t\u00eb lejoj q\u00eb kjo t\u00eb ndodh\u00eb p\u00ebrs\u00ebri\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Bibata, nga Burkina Faso, u martua n\u00eb mosh\u00ebn 22-vje\u00e7are. Ajo mendonte se do t\u00eb mund t\u00eb vazhdonte shkollimin edhe pas martes\u00ebs dhe u largua nga Burkina Faso p\u00ebr t\u00eb jetuar n\u00eb Bregun e Fildisht\u00eb me bashk\u00ebshortin. Sot, 27 vje\u00e7e, ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb kthyer n\u00eb vendin e saj.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cKur isha n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb t\u00eb mesme, prind\u00ebrit m\u00eb than\u00eb se nuk mund t\u00eb p\u00ebrballonin m\u00eb shpenzimet e arsimimit tim. Nj\u00eb i ri m\u00eb tha se do t\u2019i paguante ato n\u00ebse pranoja t\u00eb martohesha me t\u00eb. E pranova propozimin e tij sepse kjo do t\u00eb m\u00eb mund\u00ebsonte t\u00eb kthehesha n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb dhe kjo ishte shum\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme p\u00ebr mua.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Kur u largova me bashk\u00ebshortin tim p\u00ebr n\u00eb Bregun e Fildisht\u00eb, mora me vete t\u00eb gjith\u00eb librat e shkoll\u00ebs. Por pasi u vendos\u00ebm atje, ai nuk e p\u00ebrmendi m\u00eb kurr\u00eb shkoll\u00ebn. Kuptova se m\u00eb kishte g\u00ebnjyer.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ai nuk kujdesej p\u00ebr mua, as kur isha e s\u00ebmur\u00eb. P\u00ebr dy vjet, dit\u00ebt i kaloja duke b\u00ebr\u00eb pun\u00ebt e sht\u00ebpis\u00eb dhe nat\u00ebn nuk mund t\u00eb flija nga dhimbjet e k\u00ebmb\u00ebve. Isha shum\u00eb e s\u00ebmur\u00eb dhe humba shum\u00eb pesh\u00eb. Vendosa t\u00eb largohesha para se t\u00eb humbisja jet\u00ebn atje.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n Bibata nuk kishte para p\u00ebr t\u2019u kthyer n\u00eb Burkina Faso. Nj\u00eb ish-shok klase, i cili ishte vendosur n\u00eb Abidjan, e ndihmoi financiarisht dhe ajo arriti t\u00eb kthehej te prind\u00ebrit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cTani e di se n\u00eb nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie duhet t\u00eb ket\u00eb komunikim dhe sinqeritet q\u00eb n\u00eb fillim; secili duhet t\u2019i kuptoj\u00eb pritshm\u00ebrit\u00eb e tjetrit. Bashk\u00ebshorti im mund t\u00eb ket\u00eb pasur probleme, por ai nuk foli p\u00ebr to dhe un\u00eb e pagova \u00e7mimin. Pas asaj q\u00eb kam p\u00ebrjetuar, nuk do t\u00eb lejoj q\u00eb kjo t\u00eb ndodh\u00eb p\u00ebrs\u00ebri.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ende nuk kam mundur t\u00eb rikthehem n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb. P\u00ebr momentin, po i ndihmoj prind\u00ebrit n\u00eb ara. Ajo q\u00eb do t\u00eb doja t\u00eb shihja \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb grat\u00eb t\u00eb ndihmohen t\u00eb krijojn\u00eb biznese n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb ken\u00eb t\u00eb ardhura. Kur grat\u00eb punojn\u00eb, mund t\u2019ia dalin edhe pa mb\u00ebshtetjen e bashk\u00ebshort\u00ebve. Grat\u00eb duhet ta marrin t\u00eb ardhmen e tyre n\u00eb duart e veta.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n Amnesty International po punon me organizata partnere dhe komunitete n\u00eb Afrik\u00ebn Per\u00ebndimore p\u00ebr t\u2019i dh\u00ebn\u00eb fund martesave t\u00eb hershme dhe t\u00eb detyruara.<\/p>\n\n\n\n P\u00ebrmes nj\u00eb programi t\u00eb edukimit p\u00ebr t\u00eb drejtat e njeriut, t\u00eb zbatuar q\u00eb nga viti 2017 n\u00eb Burkina Faso, Senegal dhe Sierra Leone, organizata punon p\u00ebr t\u00eb luftuar dhun\u00ebn me baz\u00eb gjinore, p\u00ebrfshir\u00eb gjymtimin gjenital fem\u00ebror dhe martesat e hershme e t\u00eb detyruara.<\/p>\n\n\n\n N\u00eb Benin dhe Bregun e Fildisht\u00eb, Amnesty International zhvillon fushata p\u00ebr avancimin e t\u00eb drejtave t\u00eb vajzave dhe organizon aktivitete nd\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsuese dhe edukative n\u00eb komunitete p\u00ebr martesat e hershme dhe t\u00eb detyruara.<\/p>\n\n\n\n