N\u00eb vjesht\u00ebn e kaluar, nj\u00eb fol\u00ebs me t\u00eb cilin ndava sken\u00ebn n\u00eb nj\u00eb festival letrar, i tha publikut se n\u00eb shoq\u00ebrit\u00eb per\u00ebndimore nuk kishte nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr feminiz\u00ebm, duke shtuar se: \u201cAmerika nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb Afganistan\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
E kam d\u00ebgjuar k\u00ebt\u00eb lloj bisede m\u00eb par\u00eb. Kur isha e vendosur n\u00eb Stamboll, nj\u00eb studiuese grua q\u00eb kishte b\u00ebr\u00eb nj\u00eb vizit\u00eb nga SHBA m\u00eb tha se nuk ishte feministe, por tha se ishte e kuptueshme q\u00eb un\u00eb isha, pasi q\u00eb jetoja n\u00eb Turqi. At\u00eb \u00e7far\u00eb ajo injoronte ishte se patriarkati \u00ebsht\u00eb universal. Nuk ka dyshim se gjendja \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb m\u00eb e tmerrshme dhe d\u00ebshp\u00ebruese n\u00eb disa pjes\u00eb t\u00eb bot\u00ebs. Por kjo do t\u00eb thot\u00eb q\u00eb nd\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsimi gjinor dhe nj\u00eb luft\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb shoq\u00ebri m\u00eb t\u00eb barabart\u00eb dhe t\u00eb drejt\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e nevojshme kudo. E kjo duhet t\u00eb jet\u00eb nj\u00eb shkas p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjith\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Patriarkati i b\u00ebn grat\u00eb t\u00eb pak\u00ebnaqura. Por gjithashtu i b\u00ebn edhe burrat t\u00eb pak\u00ebnaqur – ve\u00e7an\u00ebrisht t\u00eb rinjt\u00eb, burrat pa fuqi, ose burrat q\u00eb nuk p\u00ebrputhen me p\u00ebrkufizimet ekzistuese t\u00eb burr\u00ebris\u00eb. T\u00eb jesh feminist do t\u00eb thot\u00eb t\u00eb mbrosh edhe t\u00eb drejtat e tyre.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
N\u00eb fillim t\u00eb viteve 2000, optimist\u00ebt na thoshin se e nes\u00ebrmja do t\u00eb jet\u00eb m\u00eb mir\u00eb se e djeshmja, dhe se fal\u00eb teknologjis\u00eb digjitale demokracia do t\u00eb p\u00ebrhapet kudo. Por tani dim\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb. Kemi shum\u00eb informata, por m\u00eb pak njohuri, madje edhe m\u00eb pak men\u00e7uri. N\u00ebse vazhdojm\u00eb t\u00eb mos m\u00ebsojm\u00eb asgj\u00eb nga historia, gjeneratat mund t\u00eb p\u00ebrs\u00ebrisin gabimet e gjysh\u00ebrve t\u00eb tyre.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
N\u00ebse e gjith\u00eb kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb, ne grat\u00eb p\u00ebrfshir\u00eb ato nga Lindja e Per\u00ebndimi, duhet t\u00eb shqet\u00ebsohemi m\u00eb shum\u00eb. P\u00ebrderisa nacionalizmi populist, izolimi politik dhe autoritarizmi jan\u00eb n\u00eb rritje, gjithashtu rritet edhe seksizmi. Njer\u00ebzit e par\u00eb q\u00eb humbin t\u00eb drejtat e tyre jan\u00eb grat\u00eb dhe minoritetet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kur e pyet\u00ebn Viktor Orb\u00e1n (Kryeminist\u00ebr i Hungaris\u00eb) se pse nuk kishte m\u00eb shum\u00eb gra n\u00eb kabinetin e tij, ai tha se pak gra mund t\u00eb p\u00ebrballonin stresin e politik\u00ebs. Koh\u00ebt e fundit, studimet gjinore u ndaluan n\u00eb universitetet hungareze. Grat\u00eb e k\u00ebtij vendi inkurajohen t\u00eb ken\u00eb kat\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00eb p\u00ebrmes nj\u00eb p\u00ebrjashtimi nga tatimi mbi t\u00eb ardhurat, gjat\u00eb t\u00ebr\u00eb jet\u00ebs. Interesi i Orban p\u00ebr t\u00eb kontrolluar produktivitetin e grave \u00ebsht\u00eb i lidhur ngusht\u00eb me q\u00ebndrimin e tij kund\u00ebr imigracionit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pastaj \u00ebsht\u00eb edhe Jair Bolsonaro n\u00eb Brazil. Nj\u00eb politikan i cili nj\u00eb her\u00eb i tha nj\u00eb kongresmenes, “Un\u00eb nuk do t\u00eb p\u00ebrdhunoj sepse jeni shum\u00eb e sh\u00ebmtuar”. Nj\u00eb baba i cili tha, “Un\u00eb kisha kat\u00ebr djem, por pastaj pata nj\u00eb moment dob\u00ebsie, dhe e pesta ishte vajz\u00eb.” Nj\u00eb baba i cili tha se do t\u00eb preferonte ta shihte djalin e tij t\u00eb vdiste n\u00eb nj\u00eb aksident automobilistik sesa ta shihte duke u takuar me nj\u00eb burr\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pastaj \u00ebsht\u00eb grupi ultra-konservativ Hazte O\u00edr (B\u00ebni veten t\u00eb z\u00ebsh\u00ebm), n\u00eb Spanj\u00eb. Ata vizatuan Hitlerin n\u00eb autobus\u00eb me mbishkrimin #StopFeminazis dhe b\u00ebn gjiro me t\u00eb n\u00eb Dit\u00ebn Nd\u00ebrkomb\u00ebtare t\u00eb Grave.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Zhdukja e demokracis\u00eb shpesh fillon me gjuh\u00ebn. Partia e Djatht\u00eb ekstreme Vox e Spanj\u00ebs flet p\u00ebr “xhihadizmin gjinor” ose “feminizmin supremacist”. Kjo jo vet\u00ebm q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e padrejt\u00eb, por \u00ebsht\u00eb edhe e rrezikshme. Xhihadizmi \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb k\u00ebrc\u00ebnim real. Vret njer\u00ebzit. Po k\u00ebshtu edhe supremacia e bardh\u00eb. T\u00eb injorosh k\u00ebt\u00eb dhe t\u00eb akuzosh aktivist\u00ebt e t\u00eb drejtave t\u00eb grave p\u00ebr vet\u00eb gj\u00ebrat kund\u00ebr t\u00eb cilave jan\u00eb, \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb p\u00ebrpjekje p\u00ebr t\u00eb shtremb\u00ebruar vet\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00ebn.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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