Edhe para se t\u00eb vijm\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00eb, neve na m\u00ebsojn\u00eb se ekzistojn\u00eb rregulla t\u00eb rrepta jetese bazuar n\u00eb faktin se a p\u00ebrket n\u00eb kutin\u00eb blu apo at\u00eb roz\u00eb. Kjo p\u00ebrkat\u00ebsi m\u00eb pas rregullon \u00e7do moment tonin. Ajo dikton shprehit\u00eb, preferencat tona rreth karrier\u00ebs, potencialin ton\u00eb t\u00eb fitimit, sigurin\u00eb ton\u00eb dhe pritjet q\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt kan\u00eb p\u00ebr ne n\u00eb lidhje me dashurin\u00eb dhe jet\u00ebn, deri n\u00eb frym\u00ebn ton\u00eb t\u00eb fundit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
N\u00ebse ndodh\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb mos p\u00ebrkisni n\u00eb nj\u00ebr\u00ebn prej k\u00ebtyre dy kutive, sfidat e mundshme jan\u00eb t\u00eb shumta. Sipas Pew Research Center, nj\u00eb num\u00ebr n\u00eb rritje i njer\u00ebzve nuk po p\u00ebrkasin vet\u00ebm n\u00eb nj\u00ebr\u00ebn kuti, ku 6 n\u00eb 10 persona t\u00eb Gen Z thon\u00eb se n\u00eb formular\u00eb t\u00eb ndrysh\u00ebm duhet t\u00eb ket\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb se dy opsione gjinore.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ju poashtu mund ta keni t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb t\u00eb jeni vetvetja juaj. Ju mund t\u00eb refuzoheni nga t\u00eb dashurit tuaj, madje edhe t\u00eb d\u00ebboheni nga sht\u00ebpia juaj. Ju mund t\u00eb keni probleme n\u00eb marrjen e kujdesit sh\u00ebndet\u00ebsor, sigurimin e nj\u00eb pune dhe ecjen e sigurt n\u00eb hap\u00ebsirat publike.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Muaji i Krenaris\u00eb pothuajse ka mbaruar dhe nd\u00ebrsa ne mund t\u00eb krijojm\u00eb hap\u00ebsir\u00eb \u200b\u200bp\u00ebr t\u00eb festuar t\u00eb arriturat tona, ne gjithashtu duhet t\u00eb pranojm\u00eb se ende kemi pun\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb krijuar nj\u00eb bot\u00eb me t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb t\u00eb sigurt dhe gjith\u00ebp\u00ebrfshir\u00ebse gjinore. E v\u00ebrteta \u00ebsht\u00eb se p\u00ebrqafimi i diversitetit n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn se si f\u00ebmij\u00ebt tan\u00eb identifikojn\u00eb, shprehin dhe eksplorojn\u00eb gjinit\u00eb e tyre \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb gj\u00eb e bukur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00c7far\u00eb duhet t\u00eb b\u00ebjm\u00eb?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Ne duhet t\u2019i ndalojm\u00eb rregullat rreth gjinis\u00eb. Ne si shoq\u00ebri kemi rregulluar gjinin\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb koh\u00eb t\u00eb gjat\u00eb, thon\u00eb ekspert\u00ebt, duke i detyruar njer\u00ebzit t\u00eb futen n\u00eb kuti n\u00eb t\u00eb cilat ata nuk mund t\u00eb p\u00ebrshtaten.<\/p>\n\n\n\n “T\u00eb rinjt\u00eb transgjinor\u00eb dhe jo binar\u00eb vazhdojn\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrballen me nj\u00eb klim\u00eb tep\u00ebr armiq\u00ebsore politike. N\u00eb dit\u00ebn e par\u00eb t\u00eb Muajit t\u00eb Krenaris\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb vit, Florida u b\u00eb shteti i n\u00ebnt\u00eb n\u00eb vend q\u00eb ndalon student\u00ebt trans t\u00eb luajn\u00eb sporte shkollore”, tha Amit Paley, drejtori ekzekutiv i Projektit Trevor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Sipas studimeve t\u00eb shumta, p\u00ebrve\u00e7 mohimit t\u00eb qasjes s\u00eb barabart\u00eb n\u00eb sporte dhe aspekte t\u00eb tjera t\u00eb jet\u00ebs qytetare, f\u00ebmij\u00ebt transgjinor\u00eb kan\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb ngjar\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrballen me ngacmime, depresion dhe mendime p\u00ebr vet\u00ebvrasje p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb refuzimit nga shoq\u00ebria. Ne rregullojm\u00eb gjinin\u00eb e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve tan\u00eb kur u mohojm\u00eb atyre veshje ose lodra sepse nuk mendojm\u00eb se ato p\u00ebrputhen me gjinin\u00eb e tyre t\u00eb caktuar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n “Identitetet e ndryshme gjinore jan\u00eb nj\u00eb pjes\u00eb normale e p\u00ebrvoj\u00ebs njer\u00ebzore dhe t\u00eb rinjt\u00eb gjithnj\u00eb e m\u00eb shum\u00eb po marrin njohuri dhe trim\u00ebri p\u00ebr t\u00eb shprehur identitetin e tyre”, tha Dr. Kacie Kidd, nj\u00eb pediatre dhe mjeke e adoleshenc\u00ebs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Krijoni nj\u00eb mjedis m\u00eb p\u00ebrfshir\u00ebs gjinor<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Nj\u00eb nga gj\u00ebrat m\u00eb t\u00eb mira q\u00eb ne mund t\u00eb b\u00ebjm\u00eb – pavar\u00ebsisht n\u00ebse ne identifikohemi si LGBTQ – \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb angazhohemi n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb aktive p\u00ebr t\u00eb nxitur nj\u00eb mjedis n\u00eb t\u00eb cilin ne shp\u00ebrb\u00ebjm\u00eb normat e vjetruara, binare t\u00eb gjinis\u00eb. Lajmi i mir\u00eb, thon\u00eb ekspert\u00ebt \u00ebsht\u00eb se ne mund t\u00eb kemi nj\u00eb ndikim real dhe dometh\u00ebn\u00ebs n\u00ebse nd\u00ebrmarrim disa hapa t\u00eb thjesht\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n “T\u00eb gjith\u00eb ne duhet t\u00eb d\u00ebgjojm\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt tan\u00eb dhe t\u00eb dim\u00eb se ata jan\u00eb ekspert\u00ebt e p\u00ebrvoj\u00ebs s\u00eb tyre n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb ata t\u00eb ndjehen t\u00eb sigurt duke qen\u00eb dhe duke eksploruar kush jan\u00eb ata”, tha Kidd.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Kjo do t\u00eb thot\u00eb t\u2019i lini ata t\u00eb ju tregojn\u00eb se \u00e7far\u00eb gjinie kan\u00eb, duke mos krijuar supozime mbi t\u00eb. Do t\u00eb thot\u00eb t\u00eb kuptoni ndryshimin midis identitetit gjinor dhe shprehjes gjinore dhe sesi ato dallohen nga ajo q\u00eb ju caktohet n\u00eb lindje. Kjo do t\u00eb thot\u00eb t\u00eb pranoni q\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt, n\u00eb fakt edhe disa t\u00eb rritur jan\u00eb n\u00eb procesin e vet\u00eb-eksplorimit dhe m\u00ebnyra se si ata ndihen ose shprehen mund t\u00eb ndryshoj\u00eb nga dita n\u00eb dit\u00eb dhe nga viti n\u00eb vit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Kushtojini v\u00ebmendje gjuh\u00ebs tuaj dhe rrobave<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Duhet t\u00eb punojm\u00eb n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb aktive q\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha hap\u00ebsirat n\u00eb t\u00eb cilat banojn\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt tan\u00eb – sht\u00ebpit\u00eb tona dhe ato t\u00eb miqve dhe t\u00eb af\u00ebrmve, shkollat, institucionet mjek\u00ebsore dhe hap\u00ebsirat e tjera shoq\u00ebrore – t\u00eb jen\u00eb gjith\u00ebp\u00ebrfshir\u00ebse.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Kjo n\u00ebnkupton hedhjen e supozimeve p\u00ebr gjinin\u00eb n\u00eb gjuh\u00ebn dhe praktikat tona dhe krijimin e hap\u00ebsirave t\u00eb sigurta ku f\u00ebmij\u00ebt mund t\u00eb shprehen, duke prishur muret q\u00eb diktojn\u00eb ose p\u00ebrforcojn\u00eb aktivitetet, pritjet dhe trajtimin bazuar n\u00eb gjinin\u00eb e caktuar ose t\u00eb perceptuar t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ngriteni z\u00ebrin n\u00ebse d\u00ebgjoni dik\u00eb q\u00eb rregullon gjinin\u00eb e nj\u00eb f\u00ebmije dhe inkurajoni f\u00ebmij\u00ebt n\u00eb jet\u00ebn tuaj t\u00eb ndjehen t\u00eb lir\u00eb t\u00eb shprehin dhe eksplorojn\u00eb identitetet e tyre p\u00ebrmes loj\u00ebs dhe veshjes. Mos i kufizoni ata n\u00eb ato lodra, libra ose rroba q\u00eb ata mund t\u00eb ken\u00eb n\u00eb baz\u00eb t\u00eb gjinis\u00eb s\u00eb tyre t\u00eb caktuar ose t\u00eb perceptuar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ne duhet t’i mb\u00ebshtesim f\u00ebmij\u00ebt n\u00eb lirin\u00eb e tyre p\u00ebr t\u00eb provuar gj\u00ebra t\u00eb ndryshme, duke p\u00ebrfshir\u00eb lodra, libra, loj\u00ebra, sporte dhe veshje, pavar\u00ebsisht n\u00ebse mendojm\u00eb se p\u00ebrputhet me pritjet tona se kush jan\u00eb ose duhet t\u00eb jen\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n