Nevojitet mjaft zgjuarsi p\u00ebr ta vrar\u00eb dik\u00eb dhe p\u00ebr tu mos u p\u00ebrballur me asnj\u00eb d\u00ebnim. Edhe sistemi i drejt\u00ebsis\u00eb po vazhdon ta mund\u00ebsoj q\u00eb p\u00ebr vrasje t\u00eb caktuara, n\u00eb rrethana t\u00eb caktuara, duke pasur parasysh gjykat\u00ebsin e duhur \u2013 d\u00ebnimi mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb shum\u00eb m\u00eb i vog\u00ebl se sa mund ta presim. N\u00eb fillim t\u00eb k\u00ebtij viti, nj\u00eb burr\u00eb u d\u00ebnua me vet\u00ebm 5 vite burgim p\u00ebr vrasjen e gruas s\u00eb tij, Ruth Williams, pasi q\u00eb tha se v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsit\u00eb e izolimit gjat\u00eb pandemis\u00eb ishin nd\u00ebr arsyet kryesore t\u00eb vrasjes. Ky rast konfirmon q\u00eb t\u00eb qenit i martuar me viktim\u00ebn mund t\u00eb rrit\u00eb n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb aktive keqardhjen e gjykat\u00ebsit ndaj autorit t\u00eb krimit. Gjykat\u00ebsi Paul Thomas, konstatoi se gjendja e Anthony Williams ishte shum\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00eb, megjith\u00ebse k\u00ebt\u00eb e kishte kund\u00ebrshtuar psikiatri ligjor. P\u00ebr m\u00eb tep\u00ebr, gjykata e apelit kishte refuzuar rritjen e d\u00ebnimit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Duket se marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet e burrave me grat\u00eb n\u00eb p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsi po u ndihmojn\u00eb atyre n\u00eb procese gjyq\u00ebsore, edhe at\u00ebher\u00eb kur jan\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie t\u00eb shkurta apo sporadike. K\u00ebshtu, nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie sporadike me viktim\u00ebn p\u00ebrs\u00ebri i ofroi shpres\u00eb autorit t\u00eb krimit. Warren Coulton doli para gjyqtarit Simon Picken n\u00eb maj t\u00eb k\u00ebtij viti p\u00ebr vrasjen \u201cpa dashje\u201d t\u00eb Claire Wright. P\u00ebrgjat\u00eb loj\u00ebs me role n\u00eb seks, Coulton kishte lidhur Claire e cila ishte asfiksuar edhe pasi q\u00eb kishe rezistuar duksh\u00ebm. Ai nuk kishte k\u00ebrkuar ndihm\u00eb mjek\u00ebsore dhe e la trupin e saj n\u00eb hotel. Megjithat\u00eb, Coulton u d\u00ebnua me vet\u00ebm 6 vjet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
N\u00eb an\u00ebn tjet\u00ebr, Sam Pybus u d\u00ebnua n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb edhe m\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebshirshme. Ai p\u00ebr vrasjen e partneres s\u00eb tij seksuale Sophie Moss u d\u00ebnua me 4 vjet e 8 muaj burgim. Ajo ishte 33 vje\u00e7 dhe n\u00ebn\u00eb e dy f\u00ebmij\u00ebve. N\u00eb deklarat\u00ebn e viktim\u00ebs, v\u00ebllai i saj James tha: \u201cNe vazhdojm\u00eb t\u00eb besojm\u00eb q\u00eb ajo ishte viktim\u00eb, e shfryt\u00ebzuar dhe q\u00eb i \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00ebnshtruar nj\u00eb fundi plot\u00ebsisht t\u00eb shmangsh\u00ebm dhe tragjik\u201d. Si duket, deklarata e tij erdhi si rezultat i d\u00ebnimit t\u00eb vog\u00ebl.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pybus, i cili ishte i martuar, ishte nisur p\u00ebr t\u00eb vizituar Moss pasi piu 24 shishe birr\u00eb, ai e kishte mbytur at\u00eb duke b\u00ebr\u00eb seks dhe kur ai e kishte par\u00eb t\u00eb vdekur, kishte pritur n\u00eb makin\u00eb p\u00ebr 15 minuta para se t\u00eb shkonte n\u00eb stacion t\u00eb policis\u00eb. Pybus pohoi se asfiksimi seksual kishte qen\u00eb me p\u00eblqimin e t\u00eb dyve dhe se ai nuk mbante mend q\u00eb e kishte vrar\u00eb Moss. Prokuroria kishte pohuar se nuk kishte prova t\u00eb mjaftueshme p\u00ebr t\u00eb v\u00ebrtetuar n\u00ebse ai kishte nd\u00ebrmend ta vriste. Ky rast do t\u00eb duhej t\u00eb merrte d\u00ebnim t\u00eb p\u00ebrjetsh\u00ebm.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00c7ka mbetet befasuese, edhe duke e pasur parasysh edhe tradit\u00ebn e gjyqtar\u00ebve patriarkal\u00eb dhe simpatin\u00eb e tyre ndaj burrave t\u00eb cil\u00ebt vrasin apo l\u00ebndojn\u00eb grat\u00eb, \u00ebsht\u00eb vendimi q\u00eb morri gjyqtari Paul Watson p\u00ebr d\u00ebnimin kat\u00ebr vje\u00e7ar. E kemi t\u00eb leht\u00eb t\u00eb biem n\u00eb p\u00ebrfundimin q\u00eb pretendime t\u00eb pav\u00ebrteta mbi seksualitetin dhe sjelljet seksuale t\u00eb grave, ndikojn\u00eb n\u00eb shfaj\u00ebsimin e burrave edhe n\u00eb raste t\u00eb dhun\u00ebs, pafytyr\u00ebsis\u00eb dhe pakujdesis\u00eb ekstreme.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
D\u00ebnimi kat\u00ebr vje\u00e7ar \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb i ul\u00ebt.. \u00cbsht\u00eb madje d\u00ebnim m\u00eb i ul\u00ebt se sa do t\u00eb kishte marr\u00eb kryesi n\u00ebse do t\u00eb kishte vrar\u00eb dik\u00eb p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb vozitjes t\u00eb pakujdesshme. \u00cbsht\u00eb m\u00eb i ul\u00ebt se d\u00ebnimi i disa burrave q\u00eb kishin vrar\u00eb burra t\u00eb tjer\u00eb pa q\u00ebllim gjat\u00eb nj\u00eb z\u00ebnke. Ne fakt, ky d\u00ebnim \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb i shkurt\u00ebr se d\u00ebnimi p\u00ebr d\u00ebmtim t\u00eb pron\u00ebs, n\u00eb t\u00eb cilin, n\u00ebse vjedh\u00eb kafsh\u00ebn sht\u00ebpiake, mund t\u00eb d\u00ebnohesh deri n\u00eb 7 vite burgim. Harriet Harman ka k\u00ebrkuar nga Prokurori i P\u00ebrgjithsh\u00ebm q\u00eb t\u00eb rishikohet ky d\u00ebnim pasi q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb i but\u00eb. Ky d\u00ebnim nuk arrin t\u00eb pasqyroj\u00eb pesh\u00ebn e vrasjes s\u00eb Moss dhe gjithashtu \u201czhvendosjen cinike t\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsis\u00eb s\u00eb tij tek viktima\u201d, k\u00ebshtu duke p\u00ebr\u00e7uar mesazhin se \u201cvrasja e t\u00eb dashur\u00ebs gjat\u00eb mardh\u00ebnieve seksuale nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb di\u00e7ka e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme\u201d. Prokurori i P\u00ebrgjithsh\u00ebm ka konfirmuar se d\u00ebnimi do t\u00eb rishikohet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Q\u00eb kjo k\u00ebrkes\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebhet shum\u00eb shpejt pasi q\u00eb politikan\u00eb nga t\u00eb gjitha partit\u00eb e kund\u00ebrshtuan n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb pasuksesshme ndryshimin e \u201cAktit t\u00eb ri t\u00eb Abuzimit n\u00eb Fmilje\u201d, p\u00ebr t\u00eb p\u00ebrfshir\u00eb \u201cseksin e ashp\u00ebr\u201d si pretendim q\u00eb do t\u00eb p\u00ebrdorej si mas\u00eb r\u00ebnduese p\u00ebr kryesit, sugjeron se festimi i k\u00ebsaj fitoreje mund t\u00eb ket\u00eb qen\u00eb i parakohsh\u00ebm.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
N\u00eb fakt, edhe pse Pybus e vrau Moss-in para se akti t\u00eb hyj n\u00eb fuqi, \u00ebsht\u00eb e paqart\u00eb n\u00ebse do mund t\u00eb b\u00ebnte ndonj\u00eb ndryshim, duke qen\u00eb e vendosur q\u00eb nj\u00eb njeri nuk mund t\u00eb miratoj l\u00ebndimin e tij apo vrasjen, e as nuk mund t\u00eb uroj p\u00ebr akuzat e vrasjes n\u00eb ato raste kur ndjekja penale nuk mund t\u00eb v\u00ebrtetoj q\u00ebllimin. Gjithashtu, i pa ndikuar nga \u2018Akti i ri i Abuzimit n\u00eb Familje\u201d, d\u00ebnimi i shkurt\u00ebr i Pybus-it p\u00ebrb\u00ebn, ashtu si\u00e7 thot\u00eb Harman, nj\u00eb deklarat\u00eb t\u00eb d\u00ebmshme, sipas s\u00eb cil\u00ebs dhuna e burrave ndaj grave \u00ebsht\u00eb e par\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme. N\u00ebse d\u00ebnimi nuk rritet, ndoshta duhet t\u00eb merret si p\u00ebrgjigja kryesore e t\u00eb gjitha k\u00ebrkesave p\u00ebr drejt\u00ebsi nga grupi avokues i fushat\u00ebs \u201cWe Can\u2019t Consent to This\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Gjithsesi, gjykimi i Pybus duket se nuk do t\u00eb zvog\u00ebloj\u00eb popullaritetin e “seksit t\u00eb ashp\u00ebr” si eufemiz\u00ebm t\u00eb fundit, ku nj\u00eb rast i dhun\u00ebs nga burrat mund t\u00eb portretizohet si di\u00e7ka tjet\u00ebr p\u00ebrve\u00e7 se si pjes\u00eb e nj\u00eb modeli t\u00eb pam\u00ebshirsh\u00ebm gjinor. Grat\u00eb ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb mund t\u00eb bien dakord t\u00eb marrin pjes\u00eb n\u00eb seks t\u00eb rreziksh\u00ebm q\u00eb tanim\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb pjese e zakonshme e pornografis\u00eb. Megjithat\u00eb ato jan\u00eb t\u00eb vetmet q\u00eb duket se po vdesin gjat\u00eb k\u00ebtij akti. N\u00eb librin e saj t\u00eb ri t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsish\u00ebm, Feminizmi p\u00ebr Grat\u00eb, Julie Bindel argumenton se sulmet seksuale t\u00eb stilit t\u00eb vjet\u00ebr tani vishen nga burrat si eksperimente “pozitive seksuale”. I kursen ata, thot\u00eb Julie Bindel, duke shtuar “disonanc\u00ebn kognitive p\u00ebr t\u00eb besuar n\u00eb parim se \u201cp\u00eblqimi ka r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi\u201d nd\u00ebrsa vazhdon mbi baz\u00ebn se \u2018jo\u2019 do t\u00eb thot\u00eb \u2018m\u00eb bind\u2019\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
D\u00ebnimi i shkurt\u00ebr i dh\u00ebn\u00eb p\u00ebr Pybis, i cili mori parasysh shprehjet e pendimit dhe pranimit t\u00eb hersh\u00ebm t\u00eb fajit, mund t\u00eb shihen si form\u00eb tjet\u00ebr e mizogjinis\u00eb q\u00eb i ka inkujaruar aludimet e t\u00eb pandehurve p\u00ebr seks \u201ct\u00eb ashp\u00ebr\u201d, si potencialisht vdekjeprur\u00ebse p\u00ebr grat\u00eb. Sigurisht, kjo ndikon edhe n\u00eb nj\u00eb kultur\u00eb p\u00ebr pandjeshm\u00ebri n\u00eb vrasjen e grave nga burrat. Drejt\u00ebsia p\u00ebr grat\u00eb t\u00ebrheq\u00eb v\u00ebmendjen edhe p\u00ebr d\u00ebnimin e fundit t\u00eb Emma Jayne Magson me 17 vite burgim p\u00ebr vrasjen e t\u00eb dashurit t\u00eb saj abuziv, t\u00eb cilit, si t\u00eb gjitha grave m\u00eb lart, nuk i ishte ofruar kujdesi mjek\u00ebsor. Gjyqtari Jeremy Baker, tha q\u00eb i erdhi keq t\u00eb shihte q\u00eb ajo nuk u pendua per veprimet e saj.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Shum\u00eb prej nesh ndihen nj\u00ebsoj p\u00ebr sjelljen e gjykat\u00ebsve nd\u00ebr vite. A i vjen keq ndonj\u00eb gjykat\u00ebsi p\u00ebr m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn se si koleg\u00ebt e tyre kan\u00eb ushtruar dhun\u00ebn kund\u00ebr grave? Deri n\u00eb jav\u00ebn e kaluar? Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb von\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb k\u00ebrkuar q\u00eb kjo gj\u00eb t\u00eb merret parasysh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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