{"id":4872,"date":"2022-11-07T14:15:18","date_gmt":"2022-11-07T13:15:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/qika.org\/?post_type=lexo-post&p=4872"},"modified":"2022-11-07T14:15:19","modified_gmt":"2022-11-07T13:15:19","slug":"ku-qendron-lidhja-mes-pushimit-prinderor-dhe-gjinise","status":"publish","type":"lexo-post","link":"https:\/\/qika.org\/en\/lexo-post\/ku-qendron-lidhja-mes-pushimit-prinderor-dhe-gjinise\/","title":{"rendered":"Ku q\u00ebndron lidhja mes pushimit prind\u00ebror dhe gjinis\u00eb?<\/strong>"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Disa nga pabarazit\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb vazhdueshme gjinore lidhen me barr\u00ebn e pun\u00ebs s\u00eb papaguar t\u00eb kujdesit p\u00ebr grat\u00eb, e cila shpesh p\u00ebrkthehet n\u00eb pasiguri n\u00eb pun\u00eb dhe m\u00eb pak mund\u00ebsi p\u00ebr avancim personal dhe profesional. Leja prind\u00ebrore mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb nj\u00eb mas\u00eb kritike p\u00ebr avancimin e barazis\u00eb gjinore dhe fuqizimin e grave n\u00eb pun\u00eb dhe n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pushimi prind\u00ebror dhe i paguar u mund\u00ebson grave t\u00eb mir\u00ebmbajn\u00eb nj\u00eb shkall\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb madhe t\u00eb pavar\u00ebsis\u00eb financiare me t\u00eb ardhura t\u00eb vazhdueshme p\u00ebr t\u00eb mb\u00ebshtetur veten dhe familjet e tyre. Gjithashtu rrit gjasat q\u00eb ato t\u00eb mbeten n\u00eb tregun e pun\u00ebs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sh\u00ebndeti i grave<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pushimi i lehonis\u00eb dhe pushimi prind\u00ebror mbrojn\u00eb sh\u00ebndetin e grave duke lejuar rikuperimin fizik dhe mendor nga ndryshimet fiziologjike q\u00eb lidhen me lindjen e f\u00ebmij\u00ebs. Periudha pas lindjes mund t\u00eb karakterizohet nga sfida mjek\u00ebsore p\u00ebr grat\u00eb si dhimbja, depresioni, infeksionet dhe stresi. Grat\u00eb q\u00eb lindin me prerje cezariane u duhen periudha m\u00eb t\u00eb gjata rikuperimi dhe mund t\u00eb ken\u00eb nevoja sh\u00ebndet\u00ebsore unike afatshkurtra dhe afatgjata.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Diskriminimi am\u00ebsor<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Shembuj t\u00eb diskriminimit t\u00eb lidhur me maternitetin ndaj grave shtatz\u00ebna:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ju k\u00ebrkohet t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb nj\u00eb test shtatz\u00ebnie p\u00ebrpara se t\u00eb pun\u00ebsohen<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nuk konsiderojn\u00eb grat\u00eb me foshnja ose f\u00ebmij\u00eb t\u00eb vegj\u00ebl p\u00ebr ngritje n\u00eb detyr\u00eb ose mund\u00ebsi zhvillimi profesional.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

P\u00ebrballja me presionin p\u00ebr t\u00eb dh\u00ebn\u00eb dor\u00ebheqjen (e cila vie si rezultat n\u00ebse pun\u00ebdh\u00ebn\u00ebsit jan\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebs p\u00ebr disa ose t\u00eb gjitha pagat e pushimit t\u00eb lehonis\u00eb).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mungesa e infrastruktur\u00ebs apo politikave p\u00ebr ushqyerjen me gji nd\u00ebrpritet pas kthimit n\u00eb pun\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Standardet e dyfishta<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u00eb rastin e \u00e7ifteve heteroseksuale me f\u00ebmij\u00eb, gruaja priret t\u00eb shihet si prindi i paracaktuar dhe p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebs. Sakrificat personale dhe profesionale t\u00eb grave merren si t\u00eb mir\u00ebqena dhe b\u00ebhen t\u00eb rr\u00ebnjosura si nj\u00eb identitet i pritsh\u00ebm shoq\u00ebror. P\u00ebr shembull, grat\u00eb shpesh mendohen si n\u00ebna (s\u00eb pari) q\u00eb punojn\u00eb me pages\u00eb (s\u00eb dyti) – ose n\u00ebna q\u00eb punojn\u00eb. Megjithat\u00eb, burrat q\u00eb punojn\u00eb dhe jan\u00eb baballar\u00eb rrall\u00eb mendohen si baballar\u00eb pun\u00ebtor\u00eb. Presioni i shtuar q\u00eb shpesh bie mbi grat\u00eb me k\u00ebto role t\u00eb dyfishta p\u00ebrmblidhet me th\u00ebnien: “Ne presim q\u00eb grat\u00eb t\u00eb punojn\u00eb sikur t\u00eb mos ken\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb dhe t’i rrisin f\u00ebmij\u00ebt sikur t\u00eb mos punojn\u00eb<\/em>“.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ngarkesat e dyfishta<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pritjet sociale rreth p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsive prind\u00ebrore t\u00eb grave dhe burrave p\u00ebrforcohen n\u00eb politikat dhe ligjet nga t\u00eb cilat ato rrjedhin. P\u00ebr shembull, politikat e pun\u00ebsimit shpesh formuloheshin me nj\u00eb supozim t\u00eb n\u00ebnkuptuar se pun\u00ebtor\u00ebt burra do t\u00eb kishin partnere t\u00eb cilat marrin shumic\u00ebn e p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsive t\u00eb p\u00ebrditshme t\u00eb rritjes s\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve dhe t\u00eb sht\u00ebpis\u00eb. P\u00ebrve\u00e7 k\u00ebsaj, ata shpesh supozojn\u00eb se nj\u00ebsia familjare p\u00ebrb\u00ebhet nga nj\u00eb burr\u00eb dhe nj\u00eb grua (t\u00eb cil\u00ebt jan\u00eb t\u00eb martuar) dhe f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tyre. Mir\u00ebpo, ky konstatim nuk pasqyron p\u00ebrb\u00ebrjen e shum\u00eb familjeve n\u00eb rajon dhe as n\u00eb bot\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00c7ka p\u00ebr baballar\u00ebt?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mungesa e lejes s\u00eb mjaftueshme prind\u00ebrore p\u00ebrforcon normat gjinore dhe standardet e dyfishta q\u00eb kan\u00eb ndikime t\u00eb ndryshme tek grat\u00eb dhe burrat n\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet heteroseksuale. P\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb pabarazive sistematike gjinore n\u00eb shoq\u00ebrit\u00eb tona, grat\u00eb si grup p\u00ebrballen me disavantazhe m\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebdha se burrat. Megjithat\u00eb, edhe burrat kan\u00eb nj\u00eb rol t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsish\u00ebm p\u00ebr t\u00eb par\u00eb ndryshime pozitive. Shum\u00eb nga pasojat e politikave t\u00eb pamjaftueshme t\u00eb lejes prind\u00ebrore vlejn\u00eb p\u00ebr baballar\u00ebt e rinj po aq sa p\u00ebr n\u00ebnat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Stereotipet gjinore gjithashtu mund t\u2019i ndrydh ndjenjat e burrave q\u00eb ndihen t\u00eb kufizuar n\u00eb rolin tradicional, por q\u00eb sinqerisht d\u00ebshirojn\u00eb t\u00eb kalojn\u00eb koh\u00eb me f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tyre. Stigmat rreth at\u00ebsis\u00eb aktive reflektohen n\u00eb lejen e at\u00ebsis\u00eb, prind\u00ebrore dhe politikat p\u00ebrkat\u00ebse.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Barazia gjinore n\u00eb familje<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pushimi prind\u00ebror mund t\u00eb ndihmoj n\u00eb nxitjen e bashk\u00ebprind\u00ebrimit dhe zb\u00ebrthimin e normave t\u00eb d\u00ebmshme gjinore n\u00eb nivel familjar, duke promovuar rritjen e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve dhe p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsit\u00eb e p\u00ebrbashk\u00ebta sht\u00ebpiake. Hulumtimet tregojn\u00eb nj\u00eb lidhje midis baballar\u00ebve q\u00eb marrin leje dhe p\u00ebrfshirjes s\u00eb tyre afatgjat\u00eb n\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsit\u00eb familjare \u2013 ve\u00e7an\u00ebrisht kur leja merret p\u00ebr dy ose m\u00eb shum\u00eb jav\u00eb menj\u00ebher\u00eb pas lindjes s\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebs s\u00eb tyre. Leja me pages\u00eb mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb k\u00ebshtu nj\u00eb mjet i vlefsh\u00ebm p\u00ebr t\u00eb avancuar barazin\u00eb gjinore n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi, n\u00eb vendet e pun\u00ebs dhe n\u00eb shoq\u00ebri m\u00eb gjer\u00ebsisht.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ky tekst \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebrkthyer nga QIKA n\u00eb kuad\u00ebr t\u00eb projektit \u201cDialog social p\u00ebr drejt\u00ebsi shoq\u00ebrore\u201d, q\u00eb implementohet nga Demokraci p\u00ebr Zhvillim (D4D).<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

E p\u00ebrktheu: Medin\u00eb Dauti<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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