{"id":4943,"date":"2022-12-05T13:44:54","date_gmt":"2022-12-05T12:44:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/qika.org\/?post_type=lexo-post&p=4943"},"modified":"2022-12-05T13:44:55","modified_gmt":"2022-12-05T12:44:55","slug":"beteja-per-leje-prinderore-eshte-beteje-feministe","status":"publish","type":"lexo-post","link":"https:\/\/qika.org\/en\/lexo-post\/beteja-per-leje-prinderore-eshte-beteje-feministe\/","title":{"rendered":"Beteja p\u00ebr leje prind\u00ebrore \u00ebsht\u00eb betej\u00eb feministe<\/strong>"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

K\u00ebt\u00eb ver\u00eb, gjeta nofull\u00ebn time pothuajse n\u00eb dysheme kur lexova nj\u00eb citim nga ish-drejtorja e SoulCycle<\/em>, Melanie Whelan. \u201cLeja prind\u00ebrore \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebr p*dha\u201d, thuhet se ishte p\u00ebrgjigja e saj ndaj nj\u00eb pun\u00ebtori, i cili planifikoi t\u00eb merrte dy jav\u00eb leje prind\u00ebrore nga puna pas lindjes s\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebs s\u00eb tij.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sugjerimi i saj vulgar se kujdesi p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb thelb fem\u00ebror – dhe se t\u00eb kalosh koh\u00eb larg pun\u00ebs p\u00ebr t\u00eb marr\u00eb pjes\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb, si rrjedhoj\u00eb, jo burr\u00ebrore – dukej si lloji i fyerjes s\u00eb vjet\u00ebrsuar q\u00eb mund t\u00eb pritej nga dikush i epok\u00ebs s\u00eb 1960. Fakti q\u00eb komenti u b\u00eb n\u00eb vitin 2019 nga nj\u00eb grua q\u00eb drejtonte nj\u00eb mark\u00eb q\u00eb p\u00ebrkrah fuqizimin e grave ishte e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb t\u00eb besohej.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Alexis Ohanian, bashk\u00ebthemeluesi i Reddit<\/em>, ishte po aq i indinjuar dhe u p\u00ebrgjigj me komente p\u00ebr r\u00ebnd\u00ebsin\u00eb e destigmatizimit t\u00eb lejes s\u00eb at\u00ebsis\u00eb. Nj\u00eb shkak pse ai ka qen\u00eb i z\u00ebsh\u00ebm \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb gruaja e tij, Serena Williams, gati vdiq duke sjell\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00eb vajz\u00ebn e tyre, Olympia, tre vjet m\u00eb par\u00eb. Ai ishte n\u00eb gjendje t\u00eb merrte kat\u00ebr muaj si leje prind\u00ebrore t\u00eb paguar, sipas rregulloreve s\u00eb kompanis\u00eb Reddit<\/em>, muaj q\u00eb Ohanian thot\u00eb se i p\u00ebrdori \u201cp\u00ebr t\u00eb hyr\u00eb n\u00eb rolin e tij si babai dhe kujdestari i saj\u201d. Marrja e k\u00ebsaj leje nuk ishte vet\u00ebm e domosdoshme praktikisht\u2013 Williams kishte nj\u00eb vrim\u00eb n\u00eb abdomen dhe nuk mund t\u00eb ecte kur u kthye n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi p\u00ebr her\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb nga prerja cezariane \u2013 por marrja e lejes gjithashtu vendosi tonin q\u00eb ai t\u00eb ndaj\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsit\u00eb e prind\u00ebrimit n\u00eb vitet n\u00eb vijim. \u201cKur ushqej vajz\u00ebn ose ia rregulloj flok\u00ebt, nuk ka t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb me mua q\u00eb t\u00eb marr p\u00ebrsip\u00ebr \u2018detyrat e n\u00ebn\u00ebs’, por thjesht t\u00eb jem prind”, thot\u00eb Ohanian. P\u00ebr m\u00eb tep\u00ebr, duke mb\u00ebshtetur nocionin q\u00eb leja e at\u00ebsis\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb po aq thelb\u00ebsore sa leja e lehonis\u00eb, ne ndihmojm\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb thyer rolet stereotipike gjinore q\u00eb shpesh i pengojn\u00eb grat\u00eb nga suksesi n\u00eb karrier\u00eb, argumenton ai. (Di\u00e7ka q\u00eb ne e shohim qart\u00eb tani kur n\u00ebnat mbajn\u00eb barr\u00ebn e kujdesit ndaj f\u00ebmij\u00ebve dhe p\u00ebrfundimisht p\u00ebrballen me pengesa n\u00eb karrier\u00eb si rezultat i saj).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Me fjal\u00eb t\u00eb tjera, \u201clufta p\u00ebr lejen e at\u00ebsis\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb luft\u00eb feministe\u201d, thot\u00eb Ohanian.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cE path\u00ebna q\u00eb e dim\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb: Jo t\u00eb gjith\u00eb jan\u00eb drejtor\u00eb dhe 16 jav\u00eb leje prind\u00ebrore me pages\u00eb jan\u00eb larg nga norma\u201d, thot\u00eb Ohanian. N\u00eb fakt, vet\u00ebm 9% e kompanive amerikane ofrojn\u00eb leje t\u00eb at\u00ebsis\u00eb me pages\u00eb. Sipas nj\u00eb raporti t\u00eb vitit 2019 nga Unicef<\/em>, nga 41 vendet m\u00eb t\u00eb pasura n\u00eb bot\u00eb, SHBA-ja \u00ebsht\u00eb e vetmja q\u00eb nuk ka leje prind\u00ebrore t\u00eb paguar me mandat federal. (26 nga k\u00ebto 41 ofrojn\u00eb leje prind\u00ebrore me pages\u00eb dhe 40 ofrojn\u00eb leje t\u00eb lehonis\u00eb me pages\u00eb). Aktualisht, tet\u00eb shtete – California, New Jersey, Rhode Island, New York, Washington, Massachusetts, Connecticut dhe Oregon – si dhe Columbia Disctrict kan\u00eb politikat e lejes s\u00eb paguar brenda mandatit t\u00eb shtetit, t\u00eb cilat u paguajn\u00eb punonj\u00ebsve nj\u00eb p\u00ebrqindje t\u00eb pag\u00ebs s\u00eb tyre. (Megjith\u00ebse, \u00e7udit\u00ebrisht, hulumtimi n\u00eb faqet e internetit shtet\u00ebrore p\u00ebr t\u00eb k\u00ebrkuar para nuk rezulton gjithmon\u00eb i leht\u00eb.) Marrja e lejes p\u00ebr 12 jav\u00eb nga puna \u00ebsht\u00eb e mundshme sipas Ligjit p\u00ebr Pushimin Familjar dhe Mjek\u00ebsor (FMLA) p\u00ebr prind\u00ebrit q\u00eb kujdesen p\u00ebr nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb biologjik ose t\u00eb bir\u00ebsuar, ose p\u00ebr personat q\u00eb luajn\u00eb rolin e prindit). Megjithat\u00eb ky vendim mbulon vet\u00ebm rreth 60% t\u00eb fuqis\u00eb pun\u00ebtore – dhe \u00ebsht\u00eb pa pages\u00eb, q\u00eb do t\u00eb thot\u00eb se shum\u00eb njer\u00ebz q\u00eb kan\u00eb t\u00eb drejt\u00eb ta shfryt\u00ebzojn\u00eb thjesht nuk mund t\u00eb p\u00ebrballojn\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrfitojn\u00eb prej tij.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Lejet prind\u00ebrore me pages\u00eb p\u00ebr baballar\u00ebt<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

FMLA gjithashtu p\u00ebrjashton ata q\u00eb nuk punojn\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb kompani me m\u00eb shum\u00eb se 50 punonj\u00ebs. “Si nj\u00eb shkrimtare e pavarur, un\u00eb kam shijuar p\u00ebrfitimet e fleksibilitetit n\u00eb pun\u00ebn time, por jo p\u00ebrfitimin e nj\u00eb leje lehonie q\u00eb do t\u00eb vinte nga pozita e pun\u00ebs n\u00eb nj\u00eb nga sht\u00ebpit\u00eb botuese m\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebdha”, thot\u00eb 31 vje\u00e7arja Cassie Shortsleeve, themeluesja e Dear Sunday Motherhood<\/em>, e cila do t\u00eb ket\u00eb dy f\u00ebmij\u00eb n\u00ebn dy vje\u00e7 n\u00eb shkurt. As burri i saj nuk kishte mund\u00ebsin\u00eb t\u00eb merrte pushim me pages\u00eb dhe atyre iu desh t\u00eb kursenin, n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb ajo t\u00eb mund t\u00eb largohej nga puna p\u00ebr disa muaj pas lindjeve. \u201c\u00cbsht\u00eb stresues dhe i pakuptuesh\u00ebm p\u00ebr mua fakti q\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00eb nuk do t\u00eb ishin n\u00eb gjendje t\u00eb b\u00ebnin zgjedhjen q\u00eb ne b\u00ebm\u00eb”, thot\u00eb ajo. “Kam frik\u00eb se pa pushim me pages\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb dy prind\u00ebrit n\u00eb nj\u00eb familje, shum\u00eb persona t\u00eb gjeneratave t\u00eb reja nuk do ta ken\u00eb mund\u00ebsin\u00eb ta p\u00ebrjetojn\u00eb prind\u00ebrimin p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb kufizimeve financiare \u2013 dhe kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb turp\u00ebruese”, shton ajo. T\u00eb tjer\u00eb jan\u00eb t\u00eb detyruar t\u00eb heqin dor\u00eb nga ajo koh\u00eb vendimtare me foshnjat e tyre p\u00ebr t\u00eb p\u00ebrballuar jetes\u00ebn: Nj\u00eb n\u00eb kat\u00ebr gra n\u00eb SHBA kthehet n\u00eb pun\u00eb n\u00eb m\u00eb pak se dy jav\u00eb pas lindjes s\u00eb nj\u00eb f\u00ebmije, sipas nj\u00eb raporti t\u00eb vitit 2015, gj\u00eb q\u00eb ndikon n\u00eb sh\u00ebndetin negativ si p\u00ebr n\u00ebn\u00ebn ashtu edhe p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebn.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cKy \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb problem q\u00eb duhet t\u00eb zgjidhet me ndryshime konkrete t\u00eb politikave\u201d, thot\u00eb Ohanian. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb edhe arsyeja pse ai \u00ebsht\u00eb partner me Dove Men +Care<\/em> n\u00eb Zotimin p\u00ebr Lejen Prind\u00ebrore <\/em>p\u00ebr t\u00eb nd\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsuar mbi nevoj\u00ebn e pushimit t\u00eb at\u00ebsis\u00eb me pages\u00eb dhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb shtyr\u00eb p\u00ebrpara vendime q\u00eb ishin dashur marre koh\u00eb m\u00eb par\u00eb n\u00eb Washington D.C. \u201cSepse fakti \u00ebsht\u00eb se shum\u00eb baballar\u00eb sot duan t\u00eb p\u00ebrfshihen n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb aktive n\u00eb prind\u00ebrim\u201d, shton Ohanian.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

“Ka nj\u00eb shk\u00ebputje t\u00eb madhe midis asaj q\u00eb brezi aktual i burrave q\u00eb kan\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb pret nga vetja si baballar\u00eb dhe asaj q\u00eb u akordohet atyre, nga nj\u00eb perspektiv\u00eb e politik\u00ebs dhe korporatave”, shpjegon Dr. Daniel Singley, nj\u00eb psikolog i specializuar mbi burrat dhe prind\u00ebrimin. \u201cNe si kultur\u00eb dhe shoq\u00ebri po u krijojm\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb hap\u00ebsir\u00eb \u200b\u200bbaballar\u00ebve q\u00eb t\u00eb jen\u00eb shum\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb angazhuar me f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tyre, n\u00eb krahasim me m\u00eb par\u00eb, por nuk po krijojm\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb hap\u00ebsir\u00eb n\u00eb form\u00ebn e politikave\u201d, shton ai.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Me Joe Biden n\u00eb Sht\u00ebpin\u00eb e Bardh\u00eb, ka disa shpresa p\u00ebr nisjen e ndryshimit p\u00ebr prind\u00ebrit amerikan\u00eb. Si\u00e7 shkroi z\u00ebvend\u00ebs presidentja Kamala Harris n\u00eb nj\u00eb shkrim p\u00ebr Parents<\/em>, n\u00ebn administrimin e tyre, ata planifikojn\u00eb t’u sigurojn\u00eb personave deri n\u00eb 12 jav\u00eb leje familjare dhe mjek\u00ebsore me pages\u00eb, si dhe pushime mjek\u00ebsore t\u00eb paguara, n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb askush t\u00eb mos \u201cdetyrohet t\u00eb zgjedh\u00eb midis pun\u00ebs dhe familjes\u201d. Me k\u00ebt\u00eb vendim, prind\u00ebrit nuk do t\u00eb p\u00ebrballeshin m\u00eb me nj\u00eb zgjedhje t\u00eb pamundur q\u00eb e vendos SHBA-n\u00eb shum\u00eb mbrapa nga \u00e7do vend tjet\u00ebr n\u00eb vitin 2020.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Stigma kulturore rreth lejes prind\u00ebrore me pages\u00eb dhe luft\u00ebrat e maskulinitetit<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Problemi tjet\u00ebr, megjithat\u00eb, shkon p\u00ebrtej politik\u00ebs. Shum\u00eb burra nuk e marrin lejen q\u00eb u ofrohet p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb frik\u00ebs se karriera e tyre mund t\u00eb d\u00ebmtohet \u2013 nj\u00eb k\u00ebrc\u00ebnim q\u00eb mund t\u00eb shprehet drejtp\u00ebrdrejt ose n\u00eb m\u00ebnyra m\u00eb delikate. (Sipas nj\u00eb padie t\u00eb ngritur kund\u00ebr SoulCycle<\/em>, nj\u00eb punonj\u00ebs “iu n\u00ebnshtrua presionit dhe nuk mori leje”).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u00eb Japoni, ku ofrohet nj\u00eb leje me pag\u00eb t\u00eb plot\u00eb gjasht\u00ebmujore p\u00ebr baballar\u00ebt, por ku kultura e pun\u00ebs i dekurajon shum\u00eb burrat q\u00eb ta p\u00ebrdorin at\u00eb, vet\u00ebm 1 n\u00eb 20 baballar\u00eb mori leje me pages\u00eb n\u00eb 2017, sipas raportit t\u00eb Unicef<\/em>-it p\u00ebr Politikat Familjare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cKam par\u00eb burra q\u00eb kan\u00eb prioritet p\u00ebrfshirjen n\u00eb periudh\u00ebn pas lindjes, t\u00eb p\u00ebrballen me ankth nga diskriminimi apo k\u00ebrc\u00ebnimet q\u00eb mund t\u00eb marrin ndaj avancimit n\u00eb vendin e pun\u00ebs \u2013 gj\u00eb q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb shkelje flagrante t\u00eb politikave t\u00eb burimeve njer\u00ebzore. K\u00ebt\u00eb ankth tradicionalisht e kan\u00eb p\u00ebrjetuar n\u00ebnat\u201d, thot\u00eb Dr. Singley.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Shum\u00eb baballar\u00eb t\u00eb rinj, mir\u00ebnjoh\u00ebs p\u00ebr at\u00eb q\u00eb po iu ofrohet, nuk duan t\u00eb trazojn\u00eb situat\u00ebn dhe t\u00eb k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb koh\u00eb p\u00ebr leje – edhe n\u00ebse e kan\u00eb t\u00eb drejt\u00ebn p\u00ebr t\u00eb. \u201cKompania e burrit tim ofroi dy jav\u00eb pushim me pages\u00eb, gj\u00eb q\u00eb ishte tejet e nevojshme. Kujdesi p\u00ebr nj\u00eb foshnje nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb, hormonet am\u00ebnore dhe privimi i gjumit jan\u00eb d\u00ebrrmuese\u201d, shpjegon Kaylan, n\u00ebn\u00eb e re 28 vje\u00e7e. \u201cAi mori nj\u00eb jav\u00eb shtes\u00eb pushimi p\u00ebrmes shtetit – nj\u00eb zgjerim i ri i pushimit t\u00eb paguar n\u00eb New Jersey i cili lejon 12 jav\u00eb pushimi me pages\u00eb (i kufizuar n\u00eb 85% t\u00eb pag\u00ebs s\u00eb tyre javore) p\u00ebr t\u00eb dy prind\u00ebrit brenda vitit t\u00eb par\u00eb t\u00eb lindjes – por kompania e tij la t\u00eb kuptohet se ai nuk mund t\u00eb merrte m\u00eb shum\u00eb se tre jav\u00eb pushim n\u00eb total\u201d, shton ajo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cProblemi \u00ebsht\u00eb se ne jemi ende t\u00eb kusht\u00ebzuar t\u00eb besojm\u00eb se grat\u00eb jan\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrshtatshmet p\u00ebr pun\u00ebn e kujdesit p\u00ebr nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb \u2013 pavar\u00ebsisht faktit q\u00eb hulumtimet tregojn\u00eb se gjinia nuk ka r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi dhe instinkti i n\u00ebn\u00ebs \u00ebsht\u00eb kryesisht nj\u00eb mit\u201d, thot\u00eb Dr. Singley. \u201cT\u00eb mos i shoh\u00ebsh baballar\u00ebt si t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsish\u00ebm n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb periudh\u00eb t\u00eb hershme \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebrkthyer n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb absolute n\u00eb vendime politike e administrative dhe n\u00eb kultur\u00ebn e organizatave t\u00eb ndryshme rreth marrjes s\u00eb lejes\u201d, shton ai.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cFakti q\u00eb p\u00ebrfshirja e baballar\u00ebve n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb periudh\u00eb kohore b\u00ebn dallim t\u00eb duksh\u00ebm v\u00ebshtir\u00eb se mund t\u00eb debatohet. Mund\u00ebsimi i baballar\u00ebve q\u00eb t\u00eb ken\u00eb leje t\u00eb paguar t\u00eb at\u00ebsis\u00eb poashtu n\u00ebnkupton se baballar\u00ebt dhe n\u00ebnat kan\u00eb shum\u00eb m\u00eb pak gjasa t\u00eb zhvillojn\u00eb depresion dhe ankth pas lindjes. Pa p\u00ebrmendur k\u00ebtu list\u00ebn e gjat\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrfitimeve p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebn e porsalindur. \u201cKa d\u00ebshmi shum\u00eb t\u00eb forta q\u00eb tregojn\u00eb se kur baballar\u00ebt jan\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrfshir\u00eb gjat\u00eb vitit t\u00eb par\u00eb, f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tyre kan\u00eb rregullimin emocional m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb, IQ m\u00eb t\u00eb lart\u00eb, priren t\u00eb jen\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb pavarur dhe aventurier\u00eb, kan\u00eb fjalor m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb kur hyjn\u00eb n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb dhe poashtu kan\u00eb m\u00eb pak gjasa t\u00eb p\u00ebrfshihen n\u00eb sistemin e drejt\u00ebsis\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb miturit\u201d, shpjegon Dr. Singley.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dr. Kathleen Gerson, profesoresh\u00eb e sociologjis\u00eb n\u00eb NYU, pajtohet se m\u00ebnyra se si ne i strukturojm\u00eb institucionet tona p\u00ebr t\u00eb mb\u00ebshtetur kujdesin \u00ebsht\u00eb e lidhur ngusht\u00eb me “betej\u00ebn t\u00ebrbuese p\u00ebr vendin e burrave n\u00eb shoq\u00ebri”. Nd\u00ebrsa ne kemi zgjeruar pik\u00ebpamjet tona p\u00ebr gj\u00ebrat q\u00eb grat\u00eb mund t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb – dometh\u00ebn\u00eb, t\u00eb kesh ambicie jasht\u00eb kujdesit p\u00ebr t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt – tani jemi n\u00eb procesin e t\u00eb b\u00ebrit k\u00ebt\u00eb p\u00ebr burrat, shpjegon ajo. Kjo p\u00ebrfshin rind\u00ebrtimin e vet\u00eb nocionit t\u00eb maskulinitetit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cKrejt \u00e7ka q\u00eb duhet t\u00eb b\u00ebni \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb shikoni krahasimin midis Presidentit Trump dhe Biden p\u00ebr t\u00eb par\u00eb se ka nj\u00eb gar\u00eb maskuliniteti q\u00eb po luhet n\u00eb kultur\u00ebn ton\u00eb sot. Trump grimohet dhe shfaq maskulinitet t\u00eb nj\u00eb lloji t\u00eb caktuar q\u00eb ka t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb me mos-njollosjen nga ngroht\u00ebsia apo ndjenjat njer\u00ebzore. Nocioni i tij p\u00ebr nj\u00eb njeri t\u00eb suksessh\u00ebm duket se p\u00ebrcaktohet vet\u00ebm nga nj\u00eb gj\u00eb: t\u00eb qenit mbajt\u00ebs financiar i familjes. Mos u shqet\u00ebsoni, gra: \u2018Ne po i kthejm\u00eb burrat tuaj n\u00eb pun\u00eb\u2019, tha Trump n\u00eb nj\u00eb tubim n\u00eb fund t\u00eb muajit t\u00eb kaluar n\u00eb nj\u00eb p\u00ebrpjekje p\u00ebr t\u00eb joshur grat\u00eb nga rrethinat periferike\u201d deklaron Dr. Gerson.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u00eb an\u00ebn tjet\u00ebr t\u00eb debatit, kemi Biden, nj\u00eb burr\u00eb q\u00eb p\u00ebrqafon dhe puth hapur djalin e tij t\u00eb rritur, pavar\u00ebsisht se \u00ebsht\u00eb tallur nga autoritetet e krahut t\u00eb djatht\u00eb. Si\u00e7 thekson Dr. Gerson, Biden “u fut n\u00eb nj\u00eb vizion t\u00eb ri t\u00eb maskulinitetit” pasi vdekja tragjike e gruas s\u00eb tij t\u00eb par\u00eb e la at\u00eb si nj\u00eb baba beqar dhe tani \u00ebsht\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb personazhi kryesor i posterit se si mund t\u00eb balancohet sigurimi financiar i familjes me kujdesin. “Ai na tregon se si dikush mund t\u00eb shpreh\u00eb maskulinitetin dhe humanitetin e tyre n\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn koh\u00eb \u2013 poashtu edhe m\u00ebnyrat pozitive se si p\u00ebrfshirja e prind\u00ebrve mund t\u00eb rris\u00eb ndjenj\u00ebn e nj\u00eb burri mbi vetveten dhe respektin e t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve”, thot\u00eb ajo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Leja e paguar e at\u00ebsis\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e mir\u00eb p\u00ebr karrier\u00ebn e grave<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cStereotipet e vjet\u00ebrsuara rreth gjinis\u00eb dhe prind\u00ebrimit kan\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb q\u00eb pun\u00ebdh\u00ebn\u00ebsit t\u00eb supozojn\u00eb se burrat me f\u00ebmij\u00eb do t\u00eb punojn\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb dhe grat\u00eb me f\u00ebmij\u00eb do t\u00eb punojn\u00eb m\u00eb pak \u2013 dhe grat\u00eb n\u00eb fund t\u00eb fundit e vuajn\u00eb efektin e k\u00ebsaj\u201d, thekson Ohanian. Nj\u00eb studim i publikuar nga Third Way<\/em> n\u00eb vitin 2014 zbuloi se nd\u00ebrsa burrat me t\u00eb ardhura t\u00eb larta pranojn\u00eb rritje t\u00eb pagave pas lindjes s\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve \u2013 \u201cbonusi i at\u00ebsis\u00eb\u201d – grat\u00eb me t\u00eb ardhura t\u00eb ul\u00ebta p\u00ebrjetojn\u00eb \u201cd\u00ebnimin e am\u00ebsis\u00eb\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cDuke avancuar politikat tona p\u00ebr lejen prind\u00ebrore me pages\u00eb dhe duke ofruar m\u00eb shum\u00eb mb\u00ebshtetje dhe burime, t\u00eb tilla si kujdesi me cil\u00ebsi t\u00eb lart\u00eb p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e i financuar nga shteti, ne mund t\u00eb ndihmojm\u00eb t\u00eb gjejm\u00eb nj\u00eb ekuilib\u00ebr midis pun\u00ebs dhe jet\u00ebs p\u00ebr n\u00ebnat dhe baballar\u00ebt dhe n\u00eb an\u00ebn tjet\u00ebr t\u00eb ndihmojm\u00eb n\u00ebnat t\u00eb p\u00ebrparojn\u00eb n\u00eb karrierat e tyre\u201d, thot\u00eb Ohanian.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hulumtimet tregojn\u00eb se ofrimi i lejes prind\u00ebrore me pages\u00eb p\u00ebr punonj\u00ebsit burra dhe gra mund t\u00eb ndihmoj\u00eb n\u00eb mbylljen e hendekut t\u00eb pagave dhe t’i vendos\u00eb t\u00eb dy prind\u00ebrit n\u00eb pozita t\u00eb barabarta. N\u00eb Suedi, ku baballar\u00ebt jan\u00eb t\u00eb detyruar t\u00eb p\u00ebrdorin disa nga leja prind\u00ebrore e ofruar (16 muaj), hulumtimi tregon se t\u00eb ardhurat e nj\u00eb n\u00ebne mund t\u00eb rriten me rreth 7% p\u00ebr \u00e7do muaj pushim shtes\u00eb q\u00eb merr bashk\u00ebshorti i saj.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cPolitikat si k\u00ebto, t\u00eb zbatuara n\u00eb vendet skandinave, jo vet\u00ebm q\u00eb rrisin shum\u00eb numrin e baballar\u00ebve q\u00eb marrin leje prind\u00ebrore, por ato gjithashtu ulin stigm\u00ebn rreth marrjes s\u00eb saj – dhe ndryshojn\u00eb kultur\u00ebn”. thot\u00eb Dr. Gerson. \u201cBaballar\u00ebt q\u00eb nuk marrin leje shihen si shum\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb padrejt\u00eb se baballar\u00ebt q\u00eb e b\u00ebjn\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb,\u201d shton ajo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

P\u00ebrfundimi pra \u00ebsht\u00eb ky: “Kur politikat lejojn\u00eb zgjedhje m\u00eb t\u00eb barabarta, i mb\u00ebshtesin ato n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb aktive dhe i shtyjn\u00eb njer\u00ebzit t’i zbatojn\u00eb ato, kultura e burr\u00ebris\u00eb fillon t\u00eb ndryshoj\u00eb”, thot\u00eb Dr. Gerson.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u00eb fund t\u00eb fundit, megjith\u00ebse lufta p\u00ebr lejen prind\u00ebrore t\u00eb paguar \u00ebsht\u00eb ende nj\u00eb betej\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb, me Joe Biden n\u00eb Sht\u00ebpin\u00eb e Bardh\u00eb, ka shpres\u00eb t\u00eb rip\u00ebrt\u00ebrir\u00eb q\u00eb kjo t\u00eb b\u00ebhet realitet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cNdihmon t\u00eb mendosh p\u00ebr k\u00ebto nd\u00ebrrime si nj\u00eb ajsberg. Nj\u00eb ajsberg mund t\u00eb nd\u00ebrtohet n\u00ebn uj\u00eb p\u00ebr shekuj me radh\u00eb e t\u00eb mbetet i paduksh\u00ebm, por papritur ai mund t\u00eb shfaqet mbi uj\u00eb. Nuk mendoj se gj\u00ebrat do t\u00eb ndryshojn\u00eb shpejt, por besoj ndryshimi \u00ebsht\u00eb i mundsh\u00ebm\u201d, deklaron Dr. Garson.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kylie Gilbert<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Ky tekst \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebrkthyer nga QIKA n\u00eb kuad\u00ebr t\u00eb projektit \u201cDialog social p\u00ebr drejt\u00ebsi shoq\u00ebrore\u201d, q\u00eb implementohet nga Demokraci p\u00ebr Zhvillim (D4D).<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

E p\u00ebrktheu:\u00a0Riola Morina<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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