Kur flasim se kush aborton dhe pse – n\u00ebse ve\u00e7 diskutojm\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb \u2013 shp\u00ebrfaqja e realitetit shpesh nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00ebllimi. P\u00ebr shkak se aborti \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb i ngarkuar politikisht dhe i stigmatizuar, bisedat rreth tij priren t\u00eb jen\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb simbolike sesa faktike, tha sociologia Tricia C. Bruce. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb ve\u00e7an\u00ebrisht e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb p\u00ebr ata pa p\u00ebrvoj\u00eb personale me abortin, t\u00eb cil\u00ebt mb\u00ebshteten n\u00eb vlerat e tyre personale, paragjykimet dhe ekspozimin nga mediat p\u00ebr t\u00eb formuar nj\u00eb opinion.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Shkurtimisht, “ne p\u00ebrdorim abortin si nj\u00eb p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebsues p\u00ebr gj\u00ebrat q\u00eb jan\u00eb t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme p\u00ebr ne,” tha Bruce, e cila shkroi librin \u201cStudimi Komb\u00ebtar mbi Q\u00ebndrimet e Abortit\u201d. P\u00ebr ata q\u00eb mb\u00ebshtesin abortin, k\u00ebto vlera mund t\u00eb p\u00ebrfshijn\u00eb gj\u00ebra t\u00eb tilla si sh\u00ebndeti i n\u00ebn\u00ebs gjat\u00eb shtatz\u00ebnis\u00eb dhe varf\u00ebria. P\u00ebr ata q\u00eb kund\u00ebrshtojn\u00eb, procedura mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb nj\u00eb shkelje morale ose fetare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cProblemi \u00ebsht\u00eb se vlera simbolike, kur b\u00ebhet fjal\u00eb p\u00ebr ligjshm\u00ebrin\u00eb, ka pasoja n\u00eb jet\u00ebn reale n\u00eb m\u00ebnyra q\u00eb un\u00eb mendoj se jan\u00eb t\u00eb paparashikuara, t\u00eb papritura dhe ndoshta edhe kontradiktore me vlerat m\u00eb t\u00eb mira q\u00eb dikush po p\u00ebrpiqet t\u00eb mbaj\u00eb\u201d, vazhdoi Bruce. K\u00ebto pasoja p\u00ebrfshijn\u00eb humbjen e qasjes ndaj mjekimeve; mohimin e kujdesit gjatw shtatz\u00ebnis\u00eb; dhe rritjen e ndjekjes penale ndaj grave q\u00eb abortojn\u00eb. Ata q\u00eb kund\u00ebrshtojn\u00eb abortin thon\u00eb se procedura \u00ebsht\u00eb fundi i nj\u00eb jete t\u00eb palindur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
P\u00ebr t\u00eb trajtuar k\u00ebt\u00eb boshll\u00ebk perceptimi, ne p\u00ebrshkruam kat\u00ebr rr\u00ebfime reale t\u00eb abortit n\u00eb form\u00eb t\u00eb librave komik. Ne intervistuam \u00e7do person mbi p\u00ebrvojat e tyre, m\u00eb pas i kthyem bisedat tona n\u00eb nj\u00eb skenar dhe tabel\u00eb tregimesh p\u00ebr nj\u00eb seri t\u00eb librave komik. Ne inkurajuam \u00e7do burim t\u00eb g\u00ebrmonte n\u00eb kompleksitetet, kontradiktat dhe nuancat q\u00eb shpesh anashkalohen n\u00eb narrativat e politizuara t\u00eb abortit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
K\u00ebto jan\u00eb nj\u00eb p\u00ebrkujtes\u00eb se aborti, aq sa ekziston n\u00eb imagjinat\u00ebn ton\u00eb kolektive politike, \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb procedur\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb mjek\u00ebsore q\u00eb u ndodh njer\u00ebzve t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb \u00e7do dit\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cDhe ata njer\u00ebz nuk jan\u00eb t\u00eb huaj. Ata nuk jan\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt. Ata jan\u00eb, n\u00eb fakt, vet\u00eb ne”, tha Bruce.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Alyn Perez, 24 vje\u00e7, Pittsburgh<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n N\u00eb dit\u00ebt e para pasi Alyn Perez zbuloi se ishte shtatz\u00ebn\u00eb, ajo imagjinoi veten duke rritur nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb, duke qen\u00eb nj\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00eb si\u00e7 kishte dashur gjithmon\u00eb. Por ajo mendoi edhe p\u00ebr pagesat e saj t\u00eb makin\u00ebs, p\u00ebr paq\u00ebndrueshm\u00ebrin\u00eb e marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnies me t\u00eb dashurin dhe mbi t\u00eb gjitha p\u00ebr largimin q\u00eb e ndjente nga familja. Zgjedhja e saj p\u00ebr t\u00eb kryer nj\u00eb abort ishte e nd\u00ebrlikuar, jo sepse ajo nuk ishte dakord me abortin moralisht, por sepse nuk ishte koha e duhur p\u00ebr t\u00eb pasur nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb – pavar\u00ebsisht se sa shum\u00eb do t\u00eb donte ajo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Evelyn Greene, 25<\/strong> vje\u00e7, Nashville<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Si nj\u00eb grua me ngjyr\u00eb q\u00eb k\u00ebrkon kujdes p\u00ebr abortin, Evelyn Greene u befasua se sa e k\u00ebndshme ishte p\u00ebrvoja e saj: Udh\u00ebtimi p\u00ebr n\u00eb Carafem ishte i shkurt\u00ebr nga qyteti i saj Murfreesboro, Tenn. Askush nuk b\u00ebri pyetje. Stafi e d\u00ebrgoi n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi me nj\u00eb paket\u00eb kujdesi – nj\u00eb gjest mir\u00ebsie q\u00eb ende e b\u00ebn at\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrlotet pas nj\u00eb shtatz\u00ebnie t\u00eb mbushur me dhimbje shkat\u00ebrruese dhe periudha depresioni. Por me 25 gusht, pasi ndalimi total i abortit nga shteti hyri n\u00eb fuqi, klinika ndaloi t\u00eb gjitha abortet. Ishte e fundit n\u00eb shtet q\u00eb e kreu k\u00ebt\u00eb procedur\u00eb. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Toni McFadden, 42<\/strong> vje\u00e7, Hamburg, Pa.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Kur Toni McFadden zbuloi se ishte shtatz\u00ebn\u00eb, ajo ndjeu sikur jeta e saj kishte mbaruar. N\u00eb fakt, vendimi i saj p\u00ebr t\u00eb kryer abort – trauma mjek\u00ebsore dhe izolimi emocional q\u00eb ajo p\u00ebrjetoi m\u00eb pas – do t\u00eb b\u00ebhej nj\u00eb incident nxit\u00ebs q\u00eb ndryshoi trajektoren e jet\u00ebs s\u00eb saj. Miqt\u00eb e saj nga kisha u b\u00ebn\u00eb i vetmi ngush\u00ebllim q\u00eb gjeti. T\u00eb folurit dhe t\u00eb shkruarit kund\u00ebr abortit dhe p\u00ebr besimin e saj, u b\u00eb q\u00ebllimi i jet\u00ebs s\u00eb saj.<\/p>\n\n\n\n