Rezultati i zgjedhjeve t\u00eb ardhshme t\u00eb Parlamentit Evropian do t\u00eb ndikoj\u00eb drejtp\u00ebrdrejt mbi t\u00eb drejtat t\u00eb cilat do t\u00eb mbrohen, lirit\u00eb q\u00eb do t\u00eb respektohen dhe m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn se si do t\u00eb luftojm\u00eb dhun\u00ebn me baz\u00eb gjinore n\u00eb vijim\u00ebsi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
N\u00ebse do t\u00eb ishit vet\u00ebm n\u00eb pyll, a do t\u00eb donit t\u00eb takoni nj\u00eb ari apo nj\u00eb burr\u00eb?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ky trend i fundit n\u00eb TikTok ka ngjallur nj\u00eb debat t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsish\u00ebm mbi sigurin\u00eb e grave meq\u00eb pothuajse t\u00eb gjitha grat\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb platform\u00eb, si dhe n\u00eb X e Instagram, zgjodh\u00ebn kafsh\u00ebn e eg\u00ebr gjigande.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
K\u00ebto p\u00ebrgjigje nuk jan\u00eb befasuese. N\u00eb \u00e7do cep t\u00eb Evrop\u00ebs, jasht\u00eb dhe online, grat\u00eb p\u00ebrballen me abuzime t\u00eb ndryshme. Ato p\u00ebrndjeken, ngacmohen e sulmohen. Problemi \u00ebsht\u00eb aq i rr\u00ebnjosur dhe i p\u00ebrhapur n\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb BE-n\u00eb, sa 1 n\u00eb 3 gra ka p\u00ebrjetuar ndonj\u00eb form\u00eb t\u00eb dhun\u00ebs seksuale apo fizike.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Derisa k\u00ebtij diskursi viral i mungon diskutimi p\u00ebr m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn se si dhuna ushtrohet m\u00eb s\u00eb shumti nga partner\u00ebt intim\u00eb, mbetet fakt i pamohuesh\u00ebm q\u00eb gjat\u00eb bllokimeve pandemike, rastet e dhun\u00ebs n\u00eb familje jan\u00eb rritur ndjesh\u00ebm. N\u00eb Franc\u00eb, p\u00ebr shembull, m\u00eb shum\u00eb se 100 gra vriten nga partneri aktual ose ish-partneri i tyre \u00e7do vit, nd\u00ebrsa nj\u00eb p\u00ebrdhunim ose tentativ\u00eb p\u00ebrdhunimi ndodh \u00e7do 2.5 minuta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
N\u00eb rrezik edhe m\u00eb t\u00eb madh jan\u00eb grat\u00eb LGBTIQ+, grat\u00eb me aft\u00ebsi t\u00eb kufizuara dhe grat\u00eb migrante. Nj\u00eb studim i fundit zbuloi se grat\u00eb migrante n\u00eb Franc\u00eb jan\u00eb 9 her\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb ekspozuara ndaj dhun\u00ebs seksuale dhe kan\u00eb 18 her\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb gjasa t\u00eb jen\u00eb viktima t\u00eb p\u00ebrdhunimit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Megjithat\u00eb ka nj\u00eb lajm t\u00eb mir\u00eb: BE-ja jo vet\u00ebm q\u00eb ka ratifikuar Konvent\u00ebn e Stambollit, nj\u00eb instrument nd\u00ebrkomb\u00ebtar p\u00ebr mbrojtjen e grave, por gjithashtu s\u00eb fundmi ka miratuar nj\u00eb legjislacion p\u00ebr t\u00eb luftuar dhun\u00ebn ndaj grave, duke p\u00ebrfshir\u00eb ndalimin e gjymtimit gjenital fem\u00ebror, martesat e detyruara dhe kriminalizimin e dhun\u00ebs kibernetike.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nj\u00eb pun\u00eb e pap\u00ebrfunduar<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Hapat para-prapa q\u00eb jan\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb p\u00ebr dy vjet n\u00eb dhomat e negociatave t\u00eb Brukselit d\u00ebshmuan nj\u00eb munges\u00eb trondit\u00ebse t\u00eb vullnetit politik p\u00ebr t’i dh\u00ebn\u00eb fund t\u00eb gjitha formave t\u00eb dhun\u00ebs me baz\u00eb gjinore. Franca dhe Gjermania b\u00ebn\u00eb nj\u00eb aleanc\u00eb skandaloze me Hungarin\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb p\u00ebrjashtuar nga ligji i ri nj\u00eb p\u00ebrkufizim t\u00eb p\u00ebrdhunimit i cili bazohet n\u00eb munges\u00ebn e p\u00eblqimit t\u00eb dh\u00ebn\u00eb lirsh\u00ebm.<\/p>\n\n\n\n P\u00ebrdhunimi \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb nga format m\u00eb t\u00eb tmerrshme, por m\u00eb t\u00eb shpeshta t\u00eb dhun\u00ebs me baz\u00eb gjinore. Vler\u00ebsohet se 5% e t\u00eb gjitha grave n\u00eb BE jan\u00eb p\u00ebrdhunuar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n P\u00ebrkufizimi i p\u00ebrdhunimit bazuar n\u00eb p\u00eblqim do t\u00eb ishte i dobish\u00ebm p\u00ebr t\u00eb mbijetuarat n\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb se 15 vende t\u00eb BE-s\u00eb, p\u00ebrfshir\u00eb Franc\u00ebn.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Para gjykatave franceze, barra e prov\u00ebs bie mbi t\u00eb mbijetuar\u00ebn \u2013 p\u00ebr t\u00eb d\u00ebshmuar se akti \u00ebsht\u00eb kryer n\u00ebn k\u00ebrc\u00ebnim, detyrim, befasi apo dhun\u00eb. D\u00ebshmimi i nj\u00ebrit prej k\u00ebtyre elementeve \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb m\u00eb i v\u00ebshtir\u00eb sesa duket dhe shpeshher\u00eb, p\u00eblqimi merret si i mir\u00ebqen\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Kjo qasje p\u00ebrve\u00e7se e vjetruar, \u00ebsht\u00eb edhe e rrezikshme. Gjith\u00e7ka pa nj\u00eb \u201cpo\u201d t\u00eb informuar dhe t\u00eb dh\u00ebn\u00eb lirsh\u00ebm, \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebrdhunim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Historikisht, prania e l\u00ebvizjeve feministe \u00ebsht\u00eb d\u00ebshmuar t\u00eb jet\u00eb faktori m\u00eb i r\u00ebnd\u00ebsish\u00ebm n\u00eb gatishm\u00ebrin\u00eb e nj\u00eb vendi p\u00ebr t\u00eb trajtuar dhun\u00ebn me baz\u00eb gjinore. Organizatat feministe kan\u00eb nevoj\u00eb dhe meritojn\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb mb\u00ebshtetje n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb mund t\u00eb nxisin legjislacion ambicioz, t\u00eb ofrojn\u00eb mb\u00ebshtetje p\u00ebr t\u00eb mbijetuarat dhe t\u00eb rrisin nd\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsimin publik.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Megjithat\u00eb, kur erdhi puna p\u00ebr t\u00eb kriminalizuar p\u00ebrdhunimin n\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb BE-n\u00eb, k\u00ebrkesat e grave has\u00ebn n\u00eb vesh t\u00eb shurdh\u00ebr, me ministrin francez t\u00eb drejt\u00ebsis\u00eb q\u00eb tha se ndryshimi ligjor q\u00eb k\u00ebrkon p\u00eblqimin e qart\u00eb do t\u00eb rezultonte me \u201ckontraktimin e marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnieve seksuale\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ka ende shum\u00eb pun\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb sfiduar k\u00ebto mite t\u00eb d\u00ebmshme.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Barazia gjinore n\u00eb flet\u00ebvotim<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Gjat\u00eb pes\u00eb viteve t\u00eb fundit, debatet n\u00eb Parlamentin Evropian kan\u00eb treguar se angazhimi i politik\u00ebb\u00ebr\u00ebsve mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb gjith\u00e7ka p\u00ebrve\u00e7se i garantuar. Hulumtimi i Oxfam France zbulon nj\u00eb peizazh t\u00eb polarizuar: nd\u00ebrsa partit\u00eb e majta, t\u00eb gjelbra dhe socialiste k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb masa t\u00eb avancuara q\u00eb variojn\u00eb nga transparenca e pagave te t\u00eb drejtat e LGBTIQ+, grupet e ekstremit t\u00eb djatht\u00eb i kan\u00eb kund\u00ebrshtuar vazhdimisht k\u00ebto nisma.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Dhe pavar\u00ebsisht disa p\u00ebrparimeve lidhur me barazin\u00eb gjinore n\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb Evrop\u00ebn, ligjet komb\u00ebtare n\u00eb lidhje me p\u00ebrdhunimin, abortin, kontracepsionin, edukimin seksual dhe t\u00eb drejtat LGBTIQ+ jan\u00eb po aq t\u00eb ndryshme sa shkum\u00ebsi dhe djathi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Pse t\u00eb drejtat, lirit\u00eb dhe siguria jon\u00eb duhet t\u00eb varen nga vendi ku jetojm\u00eb? Nuk duhet, thot\u00eb shoqata feministe Choisir la cause des femmes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Pas turneut n\u00eb Evrop\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb takuar eksperte\/\u00eb dhe aktiviste\/\u00eb, Choisir tani \u00ebsht\u00eb pionier i “klauzol\u00ebs evropiane m\u00eb t\u00eb favorizuar”: nj\u00eb propozim p\u00ebr t\u00eb harmonizuar standardet me ligjet m\u00eb t\u00eb mira, si\u00e7 \u00ebsht\u00eb ligji progresiv i Spanj\u00ebs p\u00ebr p\u00ebrdhunimin \u201cvet\u00ebm po do t\u00eb thot\u00eb po\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Q\u00ebllimi i tyre \u00ebsht\u00eb nxitja e kandidat\u00ebve n\u00eb zgjedhje q\u00eb t\u00eb angazhohen p\u00ebr standarde m\u00eb t\u00eb larta n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb evropian\u00ebt t\u00eb mund t\u00eb p\u00ebrfitojn\u00eb nga mbrojtja m\u00eb e mir\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Kjo nism\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb ve\u00e7an\u00ebrisht urgjente pasi val\u00ebt politike po zhvendosen drejt konservatorizmit n\u00eb vende si Italia, Sllovakia dhe Suedia, ku t\u00eb drejtat rrezikohen t\u00eb treten mes retorik\u00ebs virulente antifeministe dhe miliona eurove q\u00eb derdhen n\u00eb grupe anti-gjinore.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Rezultati i zgjedhjeve t\u00eb Parlamentit Evropian do t\u00eb ndikoj\u00eb drejtp\u00ebrdrejt mbi t\u00eb drejtat t\u00eb cilat do t\u00eb mbrohen, lirit\u00eb q\u00eb do t\u00eb respektohen dhe m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn se si do t\u00eb luftojm\u00eb dhun\u00ebn me baz\u00eb gjinore n\u00eb vijim\u00ebsi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ja pse ne kemi nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr m\u00eb shum\u00eb, jo m\u00eb pak, zyrtar\u00eb t\u00eb zgjedhur q\u00eb do t\u00eb d\u00ebgjojn\u00eb grupet si Choisir, t\u00eb cil\u00ebt jo vet\u00ebm jan\u00eb t\u00eb vet\u00ebdijsh\u00ebm p\u00ebr nevojat e komunitetit, por edhe t\u00eb pasionuar pas ofrimit t\u00eb zgjidhjeve.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00c7do vot\u00eb e hedhur ka fuqin\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb p\u00ebrcaktuar n\u00ebse grat\u00eb do t\u00eb ndihen m\u00eb t\u00eb sigurta n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi apo vet\u00ebm n\u00eb pyll.<\/p>\n\n\n\n